June 13, 2019 at 9:50 pm #31115
I am. I’m quite disappointed in this site after paying to join. It’s a ghost town, or the people are the other side of the world 🙁June 14, 2019 at 4:54 pm #31117
Well, there’s not a lot of us Lisa, but the site is what we make it, by dint of population density, you’re in a better position than I amJune 15, 2019 at 6:01 pm #31119
I’d like something more like dating, myself, getting to know someone. This site seems more like a support forum than a dating site, however.June 15, 2019 at 7:48 pm #31120
So say we all Kat, you could start it, with a new forum post about what you’re looking for, there’s other people from LA on here, take the reins & turn it into the site you want.June 20, 2019 at 8:12 am #31124
Yes I am!
But I guess, there is not much activity here. I am a full member now, thought it might help. But I am not sure. Are there really people who really want a relationship? And if – I guess, ost of you are from the USA right? Thats sag, because I am from Austria, so someone from Europe would be nice.
Can you give me some advises how I can try to meet people here? Is there a kind of datinggroup or so?June 23, 2019 at 3:08 am #31128
Welcome to my thread, lovely to have you here.
Well this is a dating site for Asexuals and you can filter your search by country. In the drop down menu, when you are searching for people, you choose the gender, age range, and then the country. Hope that helps?
I also run asexual dating groups, not sure if you have applied yet? I just added some Asexuals and still have more to go through. One group is for Asexuals who never want sex ever, the other group is for the Grey Asexuals/Demisexuals, I also run a group to make asexual friends.
There is also ACEapp which is a dating app for Asexuals and social networking App that you can download to an IPhone or Android, just be aware there are some fake profiles and people who are not really asexual on there too, just beware of anyone who writes ‘confused’, without an explanation. A few on there admit publicly they aren’t asexual but most don’t. There are some genuine people on there too. Especially as I know a few of them and met them in person as my friends. One guy from there who I did not know before, came to one of my meetups, just meeting me through that APP, we were not suitable for a romantic relationship as he wants kids and I don’t.
Also ace-book.net is also an asexual dating site and social networking site and is free.
Many Asexuals say they are looking for a relationship with another asexual, but when it comes to actually pursing one, taking action, dating and following through, many times it does not happen. That is why I started this thread in the first place because it seems that not many Asexuals are really that serious about getting into a serious commitment relationship. All talk and no action is useless, and people need to either be prepared to travel or find someone who wants to move to live near them. I am a non-mover as I love my life and the flat I am specifically in, so need to find a mover- someone who is willing and able to move to live near me but not with me as I enjoy living on my own and want a living apart together relationship. I am hugely romantic though so would like my guy to live near me. I would be prepared to travel a certain distance in the UK. I have asexual guys in my city who I am friends with but they are not suitable to be in a relationship with. One has an asexual girlfriend, and he is 58 and she is 22 and they are so in love. I point this out, because I get attracted mostly to younger guys in their 20s, just not met the right asexual one yet, and it’s nice to know that big age gaps do work out, although I am far younger than he is, so I am a younger asexual cougar, who does not like sex, just kissing. He is young for his age though and it’s nice to be able to relate to each other as he likes younger girls and I like younger guys. We are meeting for lunch on Monday and my next Asexual group meet-ups are next weekend, can’t wait, super excited to see my asexual best guy friends and many others.
You can also try meet-up.com to see if there are any local asexual groups on there, they are not likely to be dating groups, more for socialising, but you could meet someone who you care for more, and they more you.
Hope this helps you?
Sandra xxJuly 5, 2019 at 1:46 am #31137
It seems that the majority of asexuals are millennials and I have just reached my 50s. I am not specific to male or female, just a kind heart. New to this revelation and the limited venues to meet people of our orientation, the future of a relationship seems dismal. I hope more of us find this site and are actually interested in finding someone.July 5, 2019 at 7:07 pm #31142
I definitely am. I would so love to find someone to share my life with without the need for sex. I am thrilled with either woman or man who is caring, adventurous and fun, hopefully nearby — I live in NJ.July 6, 2019 at 4:01 pm #31152
I know I am. I guess I fall into the category of homoromantic. It would be great to get to know someone honest, open, and willing to put forth the effort.July 8, 2019 at 8:32 pm #31157
MeJuly 10, 2019 at 7:23 pm #31159
I literally just found this website so hopefully I can gain some awesome things from it.
I’d definitely be up for finding a meaningful relationship through this site. It’s hard for me trying to find anyone interested at all when I say I’m not interested in sex. I have kind of resigned myself to the fact that I’m going to be alone for the rest of my life, so to find someone would be amazing!July 10, 2019 at 9:33 pm #31160
Hi, I am also looking for one. I have planned a meetup for ace folks in the (UK) North, or those who can get there. It’s on July 27th in Manchester in the afternoon, if anyone fancies it. If so, message me and I’ll hash out some firmer plans. 😉July 18, 2019 at 2:23 am #31171
Me! Los Angeles/Orange County, CA.July 20, 2019 at 12:26 pm #31173
*raises hand*July 21, 2019 at 1:43 am #31174
One of my good asexual friends is marrying his asexual fiancee next month. He met her through a UK meetup, after coming to my own, inspired him to go to more. He spent about 3 month travelling each week to a different meetup all across the UK, until finally he met his girl at a Bath meetup and he lives in London. He was prepared to travel each weekend to go see her and she is finally moving in with him, just before they get married.
So never give up hope.
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