WHO HERE IS ACTUALLY LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS AND COMMITTED NO SEX RELATIONSHIP?

[Karl]

Hi all,

Thank you Sandra for bringing up this interesting discussion. t is really inspiring 🙂
I always imagined myself in a nice supporting relationship, something stronger than friendship. I found it also very hard to find asexual person around me. I was in few relationships previously, but it never worked well. So I hope, I will find someone to share some common interests, to make a family, may be have a child…

[Sandra]

Hi Karl,

Thank you and thanks for participating in the discussion. I am personally never wanting kids ever, but if someone else in this thread was also interested in that, how do you plan to conceive those given that you are asexual? Still by natural means or other?

Sandra

[Karl]

Hi Sandra,

I would prefer the artificial way to tell the truth. But if for some reason it would be necessary in natural, for that reason I may try. Anyway, it is a dream and I really hope one day to make it come true.

[Anonymous]

Hi, Sandra! I’m Joy (from both of your FB groups). I just wanted to add myself to this list!

[Royce]

Thanks for asking this, Sandra! I am a homoromantic who VERY MUCH wants a serious and committed relationship as an asexual (either with another homoromantic asexual or someone who simply wants to share a life together without sex). In fact, this is the main purpose why I submitted a profile for this site. I’ve spent years wondering if a relationship is possible, but I no longer believe I am the only one out there who wants to live the kind of life that I do. We’ll see. 🙂

Best wishes,
Royce

[Mara Copland]

I wish I had your optimism, Royce.

[Begonya]

Sí.
Creo que somos much@s l@s que queremos andar acompañad@s de alguien que comparta esta forma de vivir la sexualidad.
Yo al menos…
Saludos a tod@s.

[Royce]

I completely understand your point, Mara! But sometimes all I have is optimism…and a vodka martini. Both have their uses. 🙂

[Sandra]

Hi Karl

I hope your dream come true, I know some female asexuals do want kids, and there tends to be more female than males, so you have proportionally more chance.

Keep believing you can achieve it.

Sandra

[Sandra]

Hi Joy

It’s lovely to see you here, thanks for joining in the conversation.

Sandra

[Sandra]

Hi Royce

There are lots of homoromantic guys, so you are in luck. I get attracted mostly to foreign guys, Indian, Bangladesh, Middle Eastern and others – and almost every time I look at a guy’s profile on here and find him aesthetically attractive, it is guy seeking guy!! Me and my male foreign homoromantic friends are often attracted to the same guys – ha! Makes for interesting conversation!

I am curious to know how you could be with anyone else who was not a guy? Such as a girl who loved to kiss a lot? I cannot imagine that would appeal to you, but may be an aromantic?

Sandra

[Sandra]

Going off topic

What is everyone up to for Christmas?

Sandra

[Sandy]

I am not doing much at all. Will cook a ham with a few side dishes. Will just be me and my 1 son and 2 grand daughters up to the 24th. Holidays just don’t mean that much any more

[Anonymous]

My oldest son will be home for a few days, and my brother is also coming for several days, so mainly, I’ll just be enjoying their company! 🙂

[Sandra]

Hi Sandy

It is nice yo have some family coming over – shame they are not with you on Christmas Day, and sorry to hear you don’t think holiday’s mean that much anymore. Hope you take yourself out on a self-date somewhere nice xx

I am going to my parents onChristmas Eve,until the day after Boxing Day.

Sandra

[Sandra]

Hi Joy

That sounds nice. You look too young to have an oldest son.

Happy Christmas xx

[Anonymous]

Thank you for saying that, Sandra. I’m 52, and my oldest son is 24. 🙂

[Gerdes]

I have no family where I live so I am spending Christmas day with two sets of friends. Lunch with another friend in the same situation as me and dinner with an older couple.

[Sandra]

Wow Gerdes, that is a lot going on, more than some those with family. I just have my parents and my guinea pigs who are going with me to my parents tonight for a few days over Christmas. Happy Christmas to you. Have a great one x

[Sandra]

Hi Joy, I would not have guessed 52, you look much younger than that. Happy Christmas xx

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