Has anyone ever met anyone on here?

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This topic contains 29 replies, has 17 voices, and was last updated by  Georgy Marlowe 1 week ago.

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  • #31840

    Graham
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    I hadn’t been on here for a few years. I recently updated my profile.
    I am on asexualcupid, but it is so expensive to join. I sent one of those quick messages that say “I like your profile” and got one back.
    I found the same person on here and sent a friend request and a message, and I know they have been seen, but I have been completely ignored. It’s so downhearting.

    #31841

    Graham
    Participant

    I hadn’t been on here for a few years. I recently updated my profile.
    I am on asexualcupid, but it is so expensive to join. I sent one of those quick messages that say “I like your profile” and got one back.
    I found the same person on here and sent a friend request and a message, and I know they have been seen, but I have been completely ignored. It’s so downhearting.

    #31922

    Georgy Marlowe
    Participant

    I am new on here too. Nervous and a bit wary. Glad that some of you have made some friends, and even partners.

    #32064

    Ezzy
    Participant

    I’ve been a member for quite a few months without a friend request or a single message 🤔 I became a full member and have tried to be more active on the site but my expectations haven’t improved.
    I’m pretty much convinced my age is working against me – on the other few asexual sites I joined 80% of the people were under 30 years old so I appreciate I won’t get flooded with notifications.

    #32065

    Peter
    Participant

    Ezzy, have you tried initiating the conversation? or making the friend request?

    #32066

    Ezzy
    Participant

    Hey Peter, that’s such a good point.
    I think as I’ve only tried regular online dating sites I’ve always waited for people to approach me then I felt confident & comfortable in the fact that they ‘liked’ me.
    It genuinely never occurred to me that I could say hello first on here – I guess old habits die hard.

    #32067

    Peter
    Participant

    I tend to get my messages ignored after a while, but I guess it’s all part of the game.

    #32068

    Ezzy
    Participant

    I’m not sure to be honest, I wonder if asexual people tend to be a little more careful or cautious?
    I don’t want to generalise as we’re obviously all very different.
    It’s like the tortoise & the hare.
    On regular dating sites potential mates run at 100 miles an hour; on here its slower than a gentle crawl 🙈 somewhere in between would be wonderful.

    #32070

    DanM86
    Participant

    Nope. So far this feels like another let-down, even when I openly send out friend requests reaching out to other Aces in my area. New Orleans is not a hotspot for Aces, although it may be a hotspot for the LGBT community.

    #32076

    Georgy Marlowe
    Participant

    I do feel more relaxed here than on regular dating sites. But I agree with Ezzy’s words – careful and cautious..guess you never know who’s out there..but it’s all a risk..you’d think London would be a bit more proactive

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