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Friends 🙂 🙂 🙂
I’m AROMANTIC and I’m looking for friends—platonic connections that are special—with a particular interest in men. In terms of attraction (which is something I feel to a small extent, but doesn’t really matter much to me—especially what a person looks like) I’m attracted to male characteristics, and it’s still on a slightly different level that I’m open to general friendships with women. Ever since I was a kid, I was someone who really loved people and connecting. With everyone I have a relationship with, I enjoy having a deeper more spiritual connection including family and my female friends. I like to treat and be treated like each other matters enough to give time and heart.
I’m not interested in sex, kissing or romantic behavior, but I do enjoy an all around, general, friendly commitment to each other, significance to each other, and friendly emotional intimacy with each other. This is how it is with everyone I have a relationship with—just not in a mate kind of way—more in a we-are-spirits kind of way. My intention would be to get to know more than one person, have more than one new friendship, and to share platonic love with them all, because to me that’s my natural way. I want friendships that reflect how special people are, and I’d rather share love with a lot of people than just a few chosen ones, because I’m not looking for just an asexual relationship but aromantic ones. I don’t know, does that make sense?