- Ideal First Date
Hmmm- well I definitely don't envision doing the traditional muggle thing of going out to dinner, for tea, or a drink. (feels like an interview! – I don't drink anyway) I'd say the ideal first hanging out would be doing an activity where we can talk while we do it. Something like checking out a couple comic stores (the kind that have a lot of geek merchandise, newbury comics is good besides a local one) or the HP shop in Salem together would be fun.
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
A genuine girl. Someone’s who’s down-to-earth, happy & positive, and likes going to LeakyCon, cosplaying, and other geek related things. If she isn’t into geek fandoms, that would be ok as long as she knows my passion for such things. Ideally she would be into embracing her inner geek though! A woman who’s kind and generally nice, is also big on my list. She should also be asexual (I guess we would all be there since were all on this site!) but a heterorantic one.
I’m ok with introverted women, I feel my outgoingness is a good balance for someone like that. Someone who desires a close relationship intellectually and emotionally, and who thrives on being with their best friend every day. I want to be with someone who loves being together and doing things (day trips, geek activities, ect) together as well.
- About me
I’m a Sirius Potterhead, I’m talking big time. You don’t have to be into as much as I am, but it would help if you’re also a major geek. I’m a male lesbian, and yes that’s a real thing. (a guy who wants to be a girl, and then seek out a lesbian partner) I’d like to make the change, just not sure when.
I love women who are passionate about their fandoms (can be other fandoms alongside HP, star wars for instance, or anime) I’m somewhat of a big goofball, but very down to earth as well. I’m always happy and in a good mood, even if things aren’t going great at the time. I guess I look at things in a positive light no matter what’s happening. I value emotional closeness, having deep conversations about everything as well as light geek conversations. I’m kind of soft-spoken, but I’m also very outgoing. Going on little adventures such as day trips to somewhere, is something I love to do. I also love staying home. Love being outside, especially time spent at the beach.
I don’t desire sex but I do desire a romantic relationship with a woman. I thrive on being with a woman and ideally would have a romantic mate (with no sex) I could spend everyday with. The thought of living with such a woman sounds ideal to me.
Loyalty is big in my book, as far as always being friends and not being abandonded after a year, 5 years, or however long. If I become your mate, I’ll always be there. I desire the same security in a relationship.
I cosplay HP and star wars, have previously been in the SCA. I have a ”sirius” collecting bug- funko pops, HP things, random things. Love hitting flea markets looking for treasures. Love time spent at the beach on occasion. (I’m not talking all day, more like one or two hours)
I’m fun and adventurous I think!
you can reach me at: [email protected]