Hi,
I see it’s been awhile for conversation and thought with people still joining maybe someone has something to say or share or a question.
What are you thoughts and feelings around romance relationships with no sex?
The hardest thing I have found is actually how I feel about someone. Before I realised I was asexual I just thought I was very picky or broken as I didn’t want to sleep around or find people sexually attractive but felt the rest and wanted the rest, affection, love, a relationship. Once I understood me I understood who I had had feelings for and how I ‘fancy’ people. Not finding people sexually attractive does make things harder as I have to speak to them. I can be friends with highly sexed people but it can be hard sometimes as I don’t get it but people don’t get it about how i see things so that is ok, (some think I’m going to change once get into a relationship, bless). I am now excited about finding a deep and loving relationship and where I can enjoy affection but without the sex.
Thoughts?
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