I just recently learned there was an official label for my sexual preferences, or non-preferences, but I always wondered why 1. I was never jealous 2. I often liked a guy’s girlfriend more than I did him 3. why I wasn’t attracted to either gender 4. wondered why I didn’t judge promiscuous people, but just thought them “lucky” to be so social 4. Why I wanted to “share” my gorgeous mate with others 5. why I felt just as turned on by watching my mate do things as to do them with him
My tentative explanations;
1. my mixed genders make me asexual, canceling each other’s opposite sex attracton.
2. My strong libido seems to have little to do with people, except when a VERY long association with a close friend finally turns romantic then becomes sexual.
3. I’m about 60% transmale, and males I’ve known seem OK with sharing sex partners, seem to prefer threesomes, group sex, etc., and only limit themselves sexually to avoid losing a current mate.
4. I could be bisexual because I’m panromantic, and my last, bonded mate was bisexual. I didn’t actually do it, but the thought of adding more people to our romance didn’t arouse jealousy. The actual act might have triggered jealousy, however, because my female gender mode probably wouldn’t want to share.