I won’t be having children in my ‘theoretical’ marriage, however that is because of physical/biological factors. But I am open to partners who have children, or partners without.
I think some ace people can still have a strong desire to build a family. All about personal preference.
I have kids and was married. I have three children and to me sex is purely for procreation. I’m done with that so I’m done with sex. Two of my children are adults and the youngest is 10. I also have 3 grandchildren. If I ever got married again (which I doubt) they would have to not want to anymore children (couldn’t have them if I wanted to) and would have to be will to accept the ones I have. I have thought about getting married again but the fear of having to be sexual with someone has kept me from even dating. I know what they want and I’m not willing to give that so I’ve pretty much resigned myself to being alone.
Perhaps, although I’d ideally go for IVF or artificial insemination as I’d rather not have sex. Also, I have a fear of being pregnant, birth and the baby not turning out right that I’d need to overcome.
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