[grace]

To me it means that there is a possibility for sexual attraction under very limited situations. Since its not easily testable, I identify more with asexual people than sexual ones. Pretty sure I’m not a demi sexual though because I have been in love before, and have had sex with the person I loved.

• This topic was modified 10 years, 2 months ago by grace.

[Raell5]

I understood that a demisexual only feels attraction for one person who has been a soul mate for a period of time. That would be me. I made up my own name for myself-“monosexual.” I also can be initially attracted to anyone, but feel disgust the moment I start to imagine anything sexual, hence the “grey” ace. Again, this applies to me.

[Anonymous]

I agree with you Grace… the thing is that I’ve been in love.. or I thought… there’s always some scale in feeling in love… but then it was gone… I do not know really a name, so grey it’s the best definition for me. I’m attracted to men, altough I feel asexual, so that’s for me being grey 🙂

[Chris]

for me I am largly interest in the person, I see that femal almost like a beautiful peace of art, I admire them and greatly enjoy spending time with them, I am not against having sex, but the thought of getting into bed with someone, is very slightly repulsive, like I am defiling a peace of art. its weird to compare a human being to an inanimate object but thats the best way I can find it.

[Anonymous]

I’m just glad to have discovered there’s a word for what I am!
Basically, I do feel arousal and have enjoyed sex in the past, but I enjoy other acts of intimacy more and the social norm that sex should be the dominating theme of a relationship has put me off pursuing one for a long time.

[Nicolas]

I got a hell of difficulties to find were I stand (if I really found it) I have sexual needs, but only as a fantasy, as soon it becomes real, I loose all interest in the act. Aaand I don’t feel sexual attraction to people.

[Sandra]

Hi Nicolas

That is tough.

I am a heteroromantic and 100% asexual but have grey areas – because I love passionate kissing and feeling naturally excited with my clothes on – as soon as they come off, it does not feel exciting or good – in my mind I never want sex but do experience high arousal – I call myself a Grey A – because I have Grey Areas, and would never call myself a Grey Asexual as I am sure I am asexual.

[Anonymous]

I’m thinking I might be greysexual I don’t know.
Not really into oral sex or intercourse. But kissing, cuddling and mutual masturbation and some kink I am fine with. I have always had a low sex drive. Confidence issues. Sex has always been low on my priority list and seemed clumsy or an effort. Its meant I’ve been single most of my life.

[Sue]

Hi everyone. Glad to be a Member

[Sue]

Anyone in London want to hang out.

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