[Anonymous]

So I started my account a couple of weeks ago, I even went ahead and got a full membership, I mean $15 a year is not bad at all, especially if it means finding someone in this world that I can relate to and have common interests without feeling like I am completely alone among my friends. I have hardly had anyone “friend” me or message me, and the ones I have messaged have not even replied to me. Then, i had a couple people use “kik” and we talked on there for maybe a day and they don’t ever reply back now, so i didn’t want to keep bugging. I need help! I need people to tell me what is wrong with me? I am losing hope, I am on a couple different asexual sites and no luck whatsoever in meeting people, now granted I understand most of the people I have tried to talk to do not live in my state, but I don’t even care how far we are, if things develop they develop, distance should not be a reason to not pursue good people!

Does anyone have any advice? Deeply appreciated!

[Rachel]

Its not you. Myself and others have had similar experiences. There seems to be very low activity on the ace sites. And I feel as though aces are more prone to shyness. I could be wrong. But there is certainly not anything wrong with you. I usually take long breaks from these sites from time to time because of the lack of activity. :/

But hey, if you have Skype and want to join an Ace Skype Group, you are welcome to join. There are a handful of people in it.
https://join.skype.com/BWVsL900TCE5

🙂

[Mary]

There is definitely nothing wrong with you. Unless there i also something wrong with me – which is always a possibility. 🙂 I joined a bit ago, maybe a month? And I have also messaged a few people. I read back from 1 person and after I replied, I haven’t heard anything again. I have a bit better luck on asexuality.org for people responding, but still not great.

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