I have been friends with a man for 30 years. I went on a cruise with him a few years ago, and we had a good time posing as a couple like “regular” people do. There was no kissing, handholding, etc., but we had meals together and did activities together and even posed for a portrait together! He is handsome and buff, and there is absolutely no sexual attraction there. I have wondered for a long time if he was gay. Now I get it! He’s asexual too! We sure puzzled the cabin attendant. We had connecting rooms, and never “got together”. He even made a heart-shaped towel sculpture for us, with chocolates in the center of it!