- Things I am looking for in a person are:
Hi everyone! Thanks for reading. So, what do I want? I want love and companionship and even intimacy, but the kind of intimacy that comes from sharing your life and emotions with someone.
Its so hard Meeting other aces, how are you supposed to know they are ace? It’s not something I tell a lot of people.
Anyway, I want to find that person I can be a team with and create a home with. I want someone who is committed to a long term relationship, who is a good communicator, who loves animals and children, cares about the earth and loves to travel and try new things.
I’ll admit I am not the best online communicator, but this is worth it to me, I’m ready to find my life partner, so I’m willing to try. Sometimes it takes me a little while to respond on here, but if this sounds like what you are looking for please message me! You never know when and where you will meet that person who becomes your family. Are you out there?
- About me
Let’s see…I’m adventurous and independent but also like the simple life and enjoy some down time. I have a BA in International Relations, And currently teach ESL and Medical career classes to adults, which I really love.
I’m from the California coast, but living in Nevada by Lake Tahoe. I love it here, we have all the seasons.
Let’s see, what else…I’m not a night club person, but I enjoy a good comedy show. I have a mature side, but I love to do kid stuff too and am very playful. I like mini-golf, disneyland, sledding, 3D movies and am pretty much down to try all sorts of fun or adventurous stuff. I look and dress pretty girly but there is a tomboy inside dying to get her hands dirty:-)
I like nature and getting out in it. I like a nice bike ride, its a fun way to explore a new place. I am a humanitarian and a vegetarian. I’m loving, peaceful and open minded. If i could change one thing about myself i would not be so ”in my head” all the time. I tend to be a worrier and take myself (and life) too seriously. Maybe it’s cuz I’m a Capricorn;) My perfect guy would be funny and easy going to balance that out.
I love to travel and really want to go to India, Peru and Italy next. I lived in Brazil and also in Spain, so i’m open to meeting friends from anywhere, but it’s hard for me to get to know people online, so it would be so awesome to meet some people in my area. I’m open to meeting friends too, I have never met another asexual, and after years of thinking something was wrong with me and trying desperatly to fix it, I would love to connect with someone else like me. I have spent my life trying to figure out why I’m not a sexual person. It has affected me greatly, because I am attracted to people and want to be close with them…cuddling, holding hands.I have been in sexual relationships, because until a few years ago I thought that the only other choice was to be alone, and I kept thinking maybe it would change (I thought this for like 16 years lol). In those relationships I was terribly unhappy and resentful and always felt inadaquate. It was not only the sense of dread about having to do something I didn’t like, but also knowing how important sex is to other people and not understanding that at all.
So to find out there are others like me is an incredible feeling and opens up so many new possibilities. The idea of being myself with someone is amazing, and I actually believe that having an asexual relationship has the potential to be so much stronger than a sexual one. From what I see, lust only tears people apart and keeps them from true love and committment.
I think its nice to look at someone’s profile and actually be able to get a good sense of who they are and what they’re about when you’re trying to meet someone this way.
My deal breakers? Someone who doesn’t want kids, is racist or is allergic to cats. Also I don’t drink or do drugs, any hard drinking or drugs would be a deal breaker for me too. Oh, and anyone who hunts. If you think killing innocent defenseless animals is a sport or makes you tough you should get some counseling. Thanks for reading!