I understand that many of you on here do not have full membership. If you would like to contact me, I’d love to get your email. You can contact me at HawaiiCT@gmail.com.

I’m looking for a really sweet-natured guy who wants a LTR. I’ve been in the dating game and i’m completely disenchanted with the evolution of courtship these days.  It’s my hope that the Asexual community affords for relationships with a higher degree of longevity; I want a man who’s happy with the green grass on his side of the fence. I’m a romantic at heart, so I would love to find a true romantic too. I think I enjoy cuddling probably more than life itself, so someone who enjoys frequent cuddle sessions would be a major plus. I love when a guy can laugh at himself and doesn’t take life too seriously. A sexy accent is my weakness!!  Someone who is a great conversationalist, but is comfortable in perfect silence too just sitting with me. I’d love a man who isn’t necessarily into PDA, but just doesn’t care what people think if he feels like giving a simple hug as a warm greeting at the Airport, etc. I tend to be attracted to cismales, and a man with healthy sensitivities or even cries at a good movie is sweet, if anything it’s endearing to see a guy be honest and unapologetic with his emotions.  Overall, I’d love to find a guy to travel this world with, settle down and maybe have a family with one day, who knows. At the end of the day, I just want a man who is kind, gentle hearted, tends to put others first and is kind for no reason at all, because it’s just how he’s built. Oh, and a great smile and beautiful eyes are always welcome too!

I’m one of the good guys! I’m sometimes selfish with my friends and I never turn down an adventure. I grew up all over the place, and I never really learned to call anywhere my home, nowhere I’d been ever felt right. I’m nomadic by nature but I’m hoping to find a good man who will make me see the virtue of staying put and laying down roots. I love traveling and experiencing foreign cultures, so finding someone who loves to travel as much as me is kind of my dream.  I’m a great conversationalist and I’m into hikes and going camping. But I’m equally at home sitting on the porch swing with my sweetheart watching the sun go down. My friends describe me as kind and considerate, and I’d like to think they’re right. For the most part i’m the classic intellectual who loves to teach others, I’m constantly driven to learn, and I see the world from the perspective of an optimistic realist.  If you’ve ever seen those silly, ‘What Dog are you’ personality tests, I always seem to come up as the golden retriever, if that’s telling at all. And it just so happens that they are my favorite breed. According to MBTI I’m the INFJ personality, and I have to say, it’s dead-on accurate for me. The internet makes INFJ type “cool” but it’s just as much a curse because I’ve gone my whole life misunderstood, and in one-sided relationships. Maybe you could change that for me.  Other than that, im really just an open book, so if you like what you’ve read here, hit me up, and thanks for checking out my profile!!