Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
- I am a
- Looking for a
- Marital status
- Favorite Vacations Spot
Camping along the Oregon coastline
- Ideal First Date
Dinner and conversation.
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
Looking for friendships first. Open to more than that, but cannot get there without it.
- About me
Fun loving, active guy, originally from Portland, Oregon. Outgoing and like to make new friends. Having a good outlook on life and always seeing the good in others has proven me well in making lasting friendships and relationships. I have lived in the Salt Lake City area for the last 20 years. I live and work from home in downtown Salt Lake City, Utah.
*Updated November 2020. Definitely homoromantic asexual. In my journeys through self realization and learning about asexuality, I have also learned, there are not as many of us as I had thought, so by all means, reach out to me.
Like many other profiles I have read, I thought I was alone in being non-sexually minded. I came out in 1998 and lived a somewhat normal gay life. Hookups and dating were the fare and ultimately left me unsatisfied. Only recently have I discovered my more specific orientation and have been a better man for understanding it.
As stated above, looking for friendships and ultimately, a relationship. Figuring out how that will work, without the sex component, is a new concept for me, but one I am eagerly pursuing. Dating to me is the prelude to courtship and marriage, which is something I still very much want in my life.
I try to be as well rounded as I can. With that, among my varied interests, I enjoy architecture, hiking, mountain/road biking, camping, day road trips, music, dancing, volunteering, and my personal favorite: working out at the gym. I hit the gym 4x a week, mostly weightlifting and avoiding cardio at all costs, lol. I anticipate taking up swimming lessons here in July. I prefer outdoor activities to staying at home, however a good binge night of Prime or Netflix is a great way to spend the evening as well.
I am no longer an active admin for the ex-Mormon social groups, but I have connections, if you want to be connected with them and live in Utah. I’ve also been running the local social group for asexuals, Utah Asexuals, since 2018. It’s been an amazing opportunity to meet and speak with others. Quite reaffirming I am not alone in this highly sexualized world. If you are interested in our virtual meetups, you can visit our meetup page at https://www.meetup.com/SLC-Aces or our Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/utahaces
I have set aside religion for the time being. I am a former member of the Mormon church and had my records formally withdrawn from that faith.
Listed below are a variety of ways to get a hold of me, or you can just message me on here:
Email: [email protected]
Utah Asexuals Meetup Group: https://www.meetup.com/SLC-Aces/
Utah Asexuals Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/utahaces
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