- Favorite Vacations Spot
Camping along the Oregon coastline
- Ideal First Date
Dinner and conversation.
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
Looking for friendships first. Open to more than that, but cannot get there without it.
- About me
Fun loving, active guy, originally from Portland, Oregon. Outgoing and like to make new friends. Having a good outlook on life and always seeing the good in others has proven me well in making lasting friendships and relationships. I have lived in the Salt Lake City area for the last 18 years, with small stints in Atlanta, Georgia and Boise, Idaho. I currently work for the genealogical company, Ancestry, based here in Utah.
*Updated June 2018. No longer believe that I am greysexual. Maybe 1% of me is. Probably best to just say I’m homoromantic asexual.
Like many other profiles I have read, I thought I was alone in being non-sexually minded. I came out in 1998 and lived a somewhat normal gay life. Hookups and dating were the fare and ultimately left me unsatisfied. Only recently have I discovered my more specific orientation and have been a better man for understanding it.
As stated above, looking for friendships and ultimately, a relationship. Figuring out how that will work, without the sex component, is a new concept for me, but one I am eagerly pursuing. Dating to me is the prelude to courtship and marriage, which is something I still very much want in my life.
I try to be as well rounded as I can. With that, among my varied interests, I enjoy architecture, hiking, mountain/road biking, camping, day road trips, music, dancing, volunteering, and my personal favorite: working out at the gym. I hit the gym 4x a week, mostly weightlifting and avoiding cardio at all costs, lol. I anticipate taking up swimming lessons here in July. I prefer outdoor activities to staying at home, however a good binge night of Prime or Netflix is a great way to spend the evening as well.
I am active in the ex-Mormon meetup group here in Salt Lake City. Have met a number of asexuals and demisexuals through that social group. I started up an asexual meetup social group on meetup.com, Utah Asexuals. If you are in the area or plan to visit, sign up and come to an activity: https://www.meetup.com/SLC-Aces
I have set aside religion for the time being. A former Mormon, I still believe in a higher power, however, I have not resolved myself to figure out how to define that.
Listed below are a variety of ways to get a hold of me, or you can just message me on here:
Scruff: Trist – Salt Lake City
Utah Asexuals Meetup Group: https://www.meetup.com/SLC-Aces/
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