Tonia

@tonia Active 7 years, 6 months ago

 

Looking for
About me
  • Things I am looking for in a person are:

    I am still trying to completely figure this out.. I haven’t found someone that I want to be around for more than a few hours at a time in a while.. But I know they exist. . I like people with confidence, not all of the time but most of the time. And I like people that don’t blindly believe everything that they hear or see.. I like diverse and complex people…

    About me

    I am a complicated person.. I have been spending a lot of my time lately trying to unravel the mystery that is Tonia. Today I took a big step in doing that by admitting to myself and a few close friends that I am asexual.. I didn’t ever really give much thought to it before today.. One of the good/bad things about me is that I’m great at justifying, making excuses and suppressing thoughts, memories and feelings in order to make the people around me more comfortable or to try and make myself feel more normal.. That has not worked and I understand why now.

    I’ve lived a very sexual life and I have not enjoyed it.. I just always thought that in order to be ”Normal” I needed to do what I felt others believed to be right.. And now I feel a lot of fear.. I’m guessing there are stages to this realization and it’s normal to feel like I may never find happiness.. I am glad though that on this day I also am privileged to know that I am not alone.

    I want to say thank you to all the people on here.. For simply being you 🙂

    More about me, I love animals and have a lot of fish, a cat and a snake. I also have a few tattoos. I love the outdoors and will be spending my summer working in the forest at a fishing camp that you can only take a small bush plane to get to. It will be my third time doing this and I absolutely love having access to a beautiful clean lake daily. I love the water, I feel a sense of comfort in it.. I also love arts movies/ tv shows. I like to read but haven’t been actively doing it for very long but I love Jack Kerouac and Charles Bukowski to name a few. I’ve also picked up drawing and painting this past year and absolutely love that too. I aspire to go back to school when I’ve saved up some money to become a veterinary technician in hopes of moving to Australia to become a marsupial foster parent. I am an Atheist and feel very strongly about my personal belief. I do not judge Theists but I also am yet to meet someone who believes in a God that doesn’t want me to jump on board.. I don’t like this.

    Aside from that I like to help anyone or anything that I can… I am very passionate and I am nervous and excited to be here.

    Thanks for your time. 🙂

  • Name

    Tonia

    Age

    32

    Country

    Canada

    City

    Fort Saskatchewan

    I am a

    Woman

    Looking for a

    Man

    Marital status

    Single

    Language

    English

    Ethnicity

    Caucasian

    Faith

    None / Agnostic

    Interests

    Animals and Pets, Art, Listeing to Music, Nature, Reading, Social work, Traveling, Vidéo games, Watching Movies, Writing

  • Base
    Name

    Tonia

    Age

    32

    Country

    Canada

    City

    Fort Saskatchewan

    I am a

    Woman

    Looking for a

    Man

    Marital status

    Single

    Language

    English

    Ethnicity

    Caucasian

    Faith

    None / Agnostic

    Interests

    Animals and Pets, Art, Listeing to Music, Nature, Reading, Social work, Traveling, Vidéo games, Watching Movies, Writing

  • Looking For
    Things I am looking for in a person are:

    I am still trying to completely figure this out.. I haven’t found someone that I want to be around for more than a few hours at a time in a while.. But I know they exist. . I like people with confidence, not all of the time but most of the time. And I like people that don’t blindly believe everything that they hear or see.. I like diverse and complex people…

    About me

    I am a complicated person.. I have been spending a lot of my time lately trying to unravel the mystery that is Tonia. Today I took a big step in doing that by admitting to myself and a few close friends that I am asexual.. I didn’t ever really give much thought to it before today.. One of the good/bad things about me is that I’m great at justifying, making excuses and suppressing thoughts, memories and feelings in order to make the people around me more comfortable or to try and make myself feel more normal.. That has not worked and I understand why now.

    I’ve lived a very sexual life and I have not enjoyed it.. I just always thought that in order to be ”Normal” I needed to do what I felt others believed to be right.. And now I feel a lot of fear.. I’m guessing there are stages to this realization and it’s normal to feel like I may never find happiness.. I am glad though that on this day I also am privileged to know that I am not alone.

    I want to say thank you to all the people on here.. For simply being you 🙂

    More about me, I love animals and have a lot of fish, a cat and a snake. I also have a few tattoos. I love the outdoors and will be spending my summer working in the forest at a fishing camp that you can only take a small bush plane to get to. It will be my third time doing this and I absolutely love having access to a beautiful clean lake daily. I love the water, I feel a sense of comfort in it.. I also love arts movies/ tv shows. I like to read but haven’t been actively doing it for very long but I love Jack Kerouac and Charles Bukowski to name a few. I’ve also picked up drawing and painting this past year and absolutely love that too. I aspire to go back to school when I’ve saved up some money to become a veterinary technician in hopes of moving to Australia to become a marsupial foster parent. I am an Atheist and feel very strongly about my personal belief. I do not judge Theists but I also am yet to meet someone who believes in a God that doesn’t want me to jump on board.. I don’t like this.

    Aside from that I like to help anyone or anything that I can… I am very passionate and I am nervous and excited to be here.

    Thanks for your time. 🙂

  • Detailed Profile Info
    Smoking

    Daily smoker

    Height

    5'4

    Hair Color

    Brown

    Eye Color

    Green

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