- Things I am looking for in a person are:
I strongly believe that people can have a successful relationship while having completely different passions, interests, personalities and goals, so I don’t exactly have criteria people have to meet.
- About me
I’d like to think I’m pretty easy to talk to, and I can pretty much guarantee a response unless your message is basically just ”hey ;)”, no offense!
I’m a huge homebody, partially because I’m from a really small town. I’m the kind of guy who can sit around with a friend binge watching tv shows, playing videogames or just shooting the shit while watching a movie. I dealt with anxiety and depression a lot in my teens as a result of pretty severe bullying which I think is why I’m usually pretty introverted and spend a lot of time in my own head, though I’m also oddly usually the clown in my groups of friends. Despite preferring a night in over going out most days I’m a bit of a gym rat and general health nut
I have a tendency to be overly nice, I guess the way I was brought up and stuff I dealt with as a kid hard wired values into my personality and I’ve never been able to tune down really overactive empathy and a cheesy disney-like sense of what a good person aspires to be. Around friends I’m incredibly easily amused with a sense of humour that ranges from immature and downright offensive to some more witty or dark deadpan one liners. That said, I tend to pick up on when it’s time to take things seriously and I’m comfortable listening and providing input and opinions on personal or difficult subjects, I’m usually the go-to guy for most of my friends in times of need with a background in a lot of volunteer work for non-profits relating to depressed and suicidal teens, including operating what are essentially suicide/crises hotlines. When it comes to getting to know new people I usually veer into more meaningful and personal topics I feel are more defining than just likes and dislikes, I don’t really get uncomfortable with sharing what makes me who I am and often am an open book immediately though don’t really pry into other people’s lives since I know a lot of people aren’t as open
The emotional aspect has always been the one thing that really mattered to me and provided me fulfillment in relationships, I wouldn’t really label myself as completely asexual since sexuality was never really off-putting as far as dating goes but the way I approach sex revolves more around making the person I love happy if it’s important to them, in the end I always could do with or without it. I have a habit of putting the wants and needs of people I love before my own which has put me in less healthy relationships in the past but I think over time I’ve curbed some of the naivety that comes with the values and outlook I grew into as a kid
I’m not a big reader and I don’t consider myself particularly smart but I’ve always been kind of a physics, space and biology nerd with a lot of games, tv shows and documentaries I get into revolving around those topics. In particular I get fixated on the sheer size of the universe and our place in it (think H.P. Lovecraft cosmic horror and existential style stuff)
I’m not a huge fan of political correctness but don’t go out of my way to be edgy or an outright asshole for the sake of spiting people. I think people waste far too much time arguing with people on the same side of issues while the genuinely awful people go about their day indifferent to all the in-fighting and I draw a really clear line between a sense of humour or mannerisms and what beliefs they actually hold.
I was raised French but ended up learning to speak English through watching television, and to read it through video games. Essentially that just means I don’t have a thick French Canadian accent :p
Anyway, if my profile is even remotely interesting and you’d like to talk, my kik is Terry_GM so feel free to message me on there if you don’t have a membership. Let me know you’re from this site since I get the occasional message from spam bots
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