- I am a
- Looking for a
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- Things I am looking for in a person are:
Someone to share the good and the bad times with. Someone who knows how to have fun and a good laugh and perhaps teach me lol. Someone who would be honest at all times, that I could trust & rely on to further help me defeat my remaining anxieties. Someone to sit next to on the couch and cuddle upto. Basically a really good friend, that may blossom into something else. Someone with similar interests. Someone that understands anxiety and how debilitating it can be and has been there and done that etc. Someone who would understand if I needed some space. Would be fantastic if living in the same area.
- About me
I’m going to be honest with you all from the start as that is something that is important to me. I’ve suffered with anxiety and the odd panic attack for many years and at one point in my life became Agoraphobic for a while. I also suffer with Health Anxiety and Emetophobia so am a fussy eater. At present (2019) I am in the process of challenging these fears and changing my life around after the death of my Mum in 2017 with whom I was very close. I have faced many difficulties over the past couple of years and my most recent has been to take driving lessons and pass my test.
I’ve never been in a relationship due to my anxieties and because I never wanted sex and didn’t realise, until a few years ago, that there were other people who felt the same, I therefore don’t have any children.
Underneath my anxious self I’m an outgoing person who loves being outside with nature, be it going for walks in the wilderness or tinkering about in my garden and listening to and watching the birds. I try to keep fit and exercise most mornings with stretches, weight training and then at least a 30 minute brisk walk. I don’t drink alcohol, smoke or vape. My achilles heel is chocolate, if it’s in the house, I have to eat it lol.
I have two lovely cats who keep me company but I’m sure they wouldn’t mind sharing me with someone special. They are both very beautiful but somedays I crave a good chat with someone and maybe the odd cuddle. I am presently 43, but, as I am told very often, I don’t act or look like it.
I don’t watch a lot of TV as it’s mainly rubbish but I do like to watch the odd DVD/BluRay (Movies or Boxsets), I love films like Alien, Indiana Jones, Lord Of The Rings, anything sci-fi, action, adventure or comedies (Slapstick).
I play modern computer games (PC or Playstation) or retro (Spectrum, C64, Amiga), and I love the odd board game. I’m also a fan of Lego, mainly Technic, Star Wars or the Creator series. I enjoy listening to music and also playing keyboard which I began learning in 2017 and have uploaded some videos on to YouTube, which has at present a small following.
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