@shodashi Active 1 year, 1 month ago


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  • Things I am looking for in a person are:

    friendship/partnership/mate. A completed profile, with words and an array of photos, is a reasonable indicator of legitimacy and competence — in this light, you must display your ingenuity and authenticity — anything less will be deemed spurious.

    About me

    In early 2012 I took up yoga and it is very effective. I recommend it to anyone/everyone. An unexpected corollary: I find myself delving into esoteric matters that confront mankind and what the future holds for us.

    Although I do not hate sex or shun thoughts of having sex, I am lacking the intensity or frequency of those desires. I would love to share a relationship which is not too intensely one direction or another, but rather a continuous exploration and experimentation of natural, sexual expressions which all of us experience.

    Eventually, I would like to shed these robes of asexuality and love-shyness and enjoy dynamism of a vitally exhilarating sexual drive. Alas, for now that seems like a distant dream. Nevertheless it is my wish to meet a person who is sympathetic. Indeed, maybe we can help each other realize the dream!

    A few details about me: I am intelligent, attractive, exotic looking, somewhat shy at first, educated, financially secure, male, 5’ 8”, 168#, Indian origins, born/raised in America, C̶h̶r̶i̶s̶t̶i̶a̶n̶, and caring. I am honest, clean, fun, smart, endearing, and fit. I enjoy fine dining, movies, concerts, cultural events, hiking, kayaking, dancing, and more.

    Also, I have a penchant for backpacking. I’ve backpacked through the several states of the Appalachian Trail. I’ve climbed 17 of the peaks in the Catskill Mtns. Join me if you are able. Later, I’d like to either, spend time living and learning with indigenous shamanic peoples of S. America, or possibly an intensive yoga immersion (or both).

    I do feel that if there’s an inkling of a connection, then it’s important to meet soon, to see if those embers can remain lit rather than dousing them with endless electronic banter. So if you feel that glow, then I hope you will also be inclined to meet readily and easily.

    All contacts will be answered promptly and discreetly as you request.

    NOTE: the most popular search engine in the world offers electronic mail service too. My ident. is BALTOW

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    Sprngville, PA

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    Going out with friends, Health, Fitness, Diet, Nature, Reading, Traveling, Yoga, Meditation

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