You?… You are smart, affectionate, feminine, fun-loving, and in search of a nurturing, committed, loving man. You share some of my interests (see below), and, at the same time, you bring your own interests to our relationship. You have class: that blend of thoughtfulness and graciousness that is the rarest quality in either gender. You do not fear love or deep intimacy. You have implicit trust in my integrity, just as I have implicit trust in yours. You recognize the need for space in our relationship, but you consciously nurture the bond that we share – and you know that I will do the same. Like me, you are committed to a life built on truth, kindness, compassion, honesty, openness, harmony, humour, and personal growth.  Please contact me at rst2060@gmail.com

Me?… I’d describe myself as heart-centred, romantic, affectionate, playful, easy-going, well-spoken, chivalrous and well-mannered. I’m also spiritually oriented, a lover of beauty, emotionally available, a touch sentimental.

My interests?… Laughter, the mystery and beauty of nature, art, architecture, historic sites, design, organic and artisanal foods, poetry, beach-combing, drives in the country, exploring downtowns, good wine, good food, stimulating conversation (nature, art, science, metaphysics, psychology, world affairs), shinrin yoku (forest bathing), living in ”The Now”, gratitude, silence, wisdom literature (e.g., Zen, Taoism, mystic Christianity, the teachings of Eckhart Tolle, etc.), evenings at home, watching indie or foreign films, holding hands, being emotionally intimate.

A few biographical details… I have spent my career in arts and culture, as a stage actor-director, a theatre professor in several universities (including York, UBC and UVic), and a cultural manager for several Canadian cities (including Victoria). Now, I am winding down my career.