- Things I am looking for in a person are:
As of 28/01/2021, I am taking a break from this website.
My Discord is still open to chat, however. Thanks! 😀
I want to find new supportive friendships with honest and direct people who are as interested in me as I am in them, and hopefully find within them a BFF who I can spend a lifetime learning about (and vice versa) and grow with 🙂
I’m looking for people I can meet in real life – physical (non-sexual) attraction and contact become more important to me if I want to develop a friendship into something more committed.
- About me
I like to take things slowly and organically! Just getting to know each other as people! Long-term day-to-day stability, little affectionate actions, and mutual understanding is what I strive for if we’re compatible, as friends or otherwise!
If you need a label for me, the best I can give at the moment is demiromantic gray-asexual. I don’t like feeling rushed or pressured – including into relationships – and honestly my interest in having sex is low/nonexistent enough that I would be more than happy in a non-sexual committed relationship that is otherwise quietly physically affectionate. That being said, I would prefer to meet sex-indifferent people on the asexual spectrum rather than sex-repulsed. I don’t attach much emotional meaning to sex other than one of many different shared experiences that two people can bond through, but would prefer to be in a secure relationship with a person I know I can trust with the rest of my body and mind first if it is something we are both curious about trying out a few times or once in a while. I ultimately prefer cuddling and top of the head kisses, however 😉
Marriage has symbolic meaning to me, and though I am overall not planning for it, I believe that if in a serious relationship, it would be something I would eventually want. I have no interest in having children of my own.
I value sincere communication, and so am learning to be better at communicating what I truly want… I have a hard time with a passive approach and need direct feedback to thrive in intimate relationships. I also try to not make assumptions as to people’s intentions, and ask that you also do not make assumptions about mine – please do not hesitate to ask me for clarifications! If I want to try something, I will ask as soon as I can find a way to verbalise it. As can be guessed, personal freedom is very important to me, but I honor contracts once I agree to them. I try to make life less stressful in general, and like learning about new things.
And now, for the fun part: I am currently a forensic medicine resident 8) My interests vary wildly, but I usually am passionate talking about movies, T.E. Lawrence, Sherlock Holmes, seinen anime, history (WWI and before), existential philosophical queries, and Fate/Grand Order. It would be nice to meet people with similar or related interests to mine. I also practice fencing (saber) and like to stay active in general. I prefer to speak in English or a mixture of English and Polish (if you are Polish yourself :D).
I do not have access to messaging on this website, nor do I plan to visit it often. If I add you as a friend, or you want to get to know me, please send me a message on Discord: markov#9652
*I’m open to any gender – if we hit it off, we hit it off 🙂