Right now, I really can‘t imagine being around a boyfriend 24/7. Maybe with seperate bedrooms but I‘m actually naive enough to think a long-distance relationship could work. (That being said I should mention that I haven‘t given up on the US yet and California has a special place in my heart 😉 )
I see a relationship as a friendship with extra commitment. Of course that someone would be important to me but I‘ve moved so far away from that romantic ideal that it would take some time to get those feelings back. Feel free to help 😉
I am gray, so there‘s not absolutely nothing going on but I really don‘t long for physical contact so I‘m definitely right here 😀
Well, that took a while.. I considered being asexual almost ten years ago but since I‘m on the gray spectrum and was at that time still dreaming of a typical relationship, I never thought it through. Also, I‘ve always been a loner so I thought that the failed relationships (and super cringy hookups) were just me being socially awkward. But yeah, it explains so much.
Being a loner hasn‘t changed though. I used to be super romantic but it always felt wrong because I need so much alone time and while I get the appeal of a candlelight dinner, oftentimes there‘s so much narcissism involved that it almost creeps me out 😀 Why do you have to show your partner how much you care by going through all sorts of lengths to organize something big? Isn’t it enough to be there for each other and have stuff to talk about?
I do have feelings though. Lots of them. I love nature and animals and hate injustice.
Imagine going from Star WARS to Star TREK and you get an idea of my changes over the last years 😉 But I‘m not planning to become full Vulcan so MAYBE I‘ll find someone here