- I am a
- Looking for a
Animals and Pets, Art, Business, Clothes & Fashion, Collecting, Cooking / Baking, Dancing, Gardening, Going out with friends, Health, Fitness, Diet, Listeing to Music, Martial arts, Music, Nature, Reading, RV, Traveling, Vidéo games, Watching Movies, Writing, Yoga, Meditation
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
Those who relate to my feelings and interests.
Read below for a detailed description if interested in knowing more 🙂
- About me
Hi and welcome! I am here seeking for my swan, my soulmate. I know he/she is out there somewhere. Not so long ago I found out after so long of a search of what I am; asexual. I have no sexual interest or sex drive. I am a life-long celibate. I only wish to meet those with little to no sex drive, preferably no sex/sexual drive (which includes masturbation, porn, or anything of a sexual nature) and fully asexual. I however love to be loved, physical closeness that is non-sexual, and be romanced.
I am seeking someone honest and loyal and committed and ONLY a monogamous relationship (I can hold affectionate polyamorous type FRIENDSHIPS if single, but ONLY when single).Someone who accepts me for me. I am a pagan goth and I want to be accepted as I am even if our beliefs are different. Due to being asexual I have no true preference of gender, I only want to be truly loved. I have only been with those born with male genitals but I am open to love. I’m more about personality than what your body has to offer, since I have no sexual attraction. I also prefer a gentle and easy going soul who enjoys my company and appreciates my love, someone who wishes to keep me around. I need someone to balance me out in certain aspects such as I tend to be more of the aggressive type therefore I would need a more gentle soul to keep me calm, someone non-criticial but instead compliments which would boost my low self esteem. Someone who is easy going to what I had planned (though with a gentle suggestion I am open to changing plans). At the same time someone with the ability to carry me when I fall and feel I can’t carry on no more (even if it takes a LONG time to have the strength to stand again). Someone that constantly gives me affection (be it physical, verbal, etc.). Someone who enjoys and appreciates and sees the simple things such as holding hands or waking up together, even if its getting drenched in a rainstorm but as long as we have each other we can even smile and laugh at our hardships (even if we stomped with frustration and pouty faces at first). Someone who is thankful and grateful for the little things and will show it. Someone who can smother me with love and a gentle smile when I’m raging with anger so that I may calm down, someone aggressive would only make me add to that fire so I would need someone that would water the fire out in a loving/peaceful way; at times he/she may have to be a bit forceful to get through to me but never in a hurtful or harmful way, still keeping a loving tone and gesture (ex: holding me tight while caressing my face). Someone who is humble enough to say sorry and show it if they have done something hurtful (I’m super sensitive and emotional so I would need someone who can be there for me when I feel hurt). Someone not money oriented. Someone open to spontaneous even if that means saying ”screw this!” and both moving to a new location together; because at the end of the day what matters is that we are in each others arms and knowing that we always will be right next to the other. I would say I appreciate a loner type (we could be loners together ) since I’m more shy and like keeping to myself for the most part. Don’t get me wrong I love to go to events and community things but I prefer us to keep most of our lives to ourselves (from society that is). I want to be with someone that wants to be happy and healthy and doesn’t mind an adventurous lifestyle (sorry I can’t live a ”simple/norm” life like most people want); what I mean in ”simple/norm” is the regular living in a house and 9-5 type that doesn’t wish to do anything else in life but that; I prefer simple in comforts but adventurous in soul such as living in a yurt by a waterfall in the forest by a cavern living off the land and excited about our next travel adventure, in this way we are together most of the time enjoying each other, life, and nature, that’s bliss for me!I’m sure by now you know that I’m quite a romantic dreamer and that’s what I’m looking for! The type to sigh, smile, and space out just thinking of each other and our memories, as well as creating new possible romantic getaways and gestures.
I love animals and I am vegan as much as possible, I’m into the activism of animal rights and the such and wish to get more involved in the future as well as fund raising to help animals (domestic, wild, endangered, etc.) and on the topic of diet I eat organic raw foods as much as possible for I try to keep a healthy diet when possible and one day hope to grow my own. I also value freedom and hence I practice or have practiced different forms of freeganism. I have a great passion for art and I am an artist. I also love video games and fine dining. My dark pagan spirituality is VERY important to me and I will not tolerate anyone who wishes to change that. I’m proud (in a subtle way) of my asexuality though I’m still shy around people and coming out of the closet around the general public; but it’s something that holds great importance to me and I wish to be respected and valued. I wish to also be more active in the asexual community and supportive for I used to be and for a good majority currently still am lonely and hurt and I wish to be there for others as I wished I had someone that gave me support instead of harassment or criticism. I love freedom as in being able to go where I want, dress and look like I want, practice as I wish, spiritually do as I wish and such; not being a slave to the system and what society wishes to condition us in doing and being, hence why I like keeping to myself, I don’t wish to be changed or criticized, if you however are genuinely loving and accepting towards who I truly am then I’m willing to open up (not to changing!) though I usually keep pretty guarded depending on the vibe and comfort zone. I do enjoy simple things in life as well but I also love to dress elegantly and embrace special occasions. I believe simple and complex things of life should be enjoyed hence I would enjoy going to a ballroom dance in a castle with elegant presence and fine dinerring yet still enjoy sleeping in sleeping bag under a bridge and eating a cold can of soup with my partner; both would still make me smile as long as my partner is on my side and loving as ever. I am also a freelancer in the entertainment field and love to travel. If interested contact me, I’m open to anyone worldwide and I am also open to friendship only relationships. Take care!
P.S.My location is changing as I go. I am a nomad/gypsy/wanderer so its hard to keep up on my current location, so just message me. I’ll stay in a location or move depending on the situation such as a romantic partner or spiritual purpose or weather. I’m a free bird so I move pretty much at will (depending).
p.s.s. I realized that if your not a full member you can’t send or read messages (only the first few words). Unfortunately I don’t have full member access so if you want to message me I have a profile on Aven as well as Ace-Book under NightmareDreams. Sorry for the inconvenience.
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