- Things I am looking for in a person are:
I’m straight, but after a number of failed relationships, one abusive one, and not much in the way of dates since, I’m looking for a ’partner’ to do all of the things I would have done with a husband bar sex. Most of my life goals require a partner, and realistically that’s not going to happen now. So I would like to find a like-minded woman (either straight or someone who is fine with a platonic but committed arrangement) with similar interests and goals, who would be interested in a social-financial partnership without the sex.
- About me
Benefits to dating me:
* You will always be the exciting one!
* I’ll teach you how to get rich (assuming you want to)!
* I’m a natural cheerleader. You’ll be super confident!
* I’m incredibly clumsy. I will break things. I apologise in advance.
* I’m a workaholic. If you don’t like tech, I may bore you to death!
* Not a morning person. I’m a safety hazard before midday.
I work in IT/finance and love all things tech or business related. I can normally be found at gadget or investment events or hiking around in the woods. I would describe myself as a tomboy (I live in jeans and boots) but have worked in very ’corporate’ environments, so can do the ’sensible adult’ act when needed and scrub up well when I need to. I’m fairly level headed, calm (grew up with a narc father, so absolutely hate shouting matches), and logical and want to find someone similar.
I have a regular 9-to-5 locally, but also run a small tech company in my free time. I’d love to find someone who would be a business partner too, as it’s a lot more fun to empire build with someone else. I spent many years working with people/companies in a lot of debt, so financial security is very important to me (I’ve seen what happens when it goes wrong). In the near future, I’d like to run workshops or classes in personal financial management to help people out that may be naive in this area. It’s one of those things that most people find incredibly dull, but I view life as a game and money as XP that you can use for upgrades or level unlocks!
In terms of living arrangements, I love animals (I’m both a cat and dog person) and would want at least one at home. I just think they bring more happiness into a house. I love kids, but don’t want my own (I already have a huge family). I’d also prefer to stay in the area as I have a lot of roots here. I tried living in various other places in my teens/20s, but want to settle down now. However, I miss the travelling part and would love to find someone to explore the world with. It’s something I really miss out on being single. Everyone I know is busy having kids or doing family holidays, and I’m not really into solo travel.
I’m on the autistic spectrum (although had a lot of therapy, so mostly pass as ’normal’) and some people might find me a bit boring. I work a lot and don’t do much else during the week other than chill, so if you’re the type that likes to go out every evening clubbing/drinking after work then I’m probably not for you. I can be very social at events, but also need a lot of down time before/after.
Happy to answer any other questions. I know what I’m looking for is a bit unusual, but maybe there is someone else out there that wants the same thing? Sorry to the asexual men out there, but I tried dating several of you over the years and it turns out most (all, in my experience) want sex if given the choice.
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