- Things I am looking for in a person are:
Heteroromantic guy (intuitive-feelings (NF) type person). Professional, educated, honest, reliable, good manners, sensible but a damn good laugh too! It would be nice to make a friend out of this if anything!
- About me
Thanks for stopping by. I’m still very new to this and the only way I can describe myself is that I have had boyfriends, some good and some bad and have loved deeply. Not particularly interested in ”the physical stuff” but have experienced it when a connection was made (the connection would normally take a while to develop after I got to know them). I guess I am halfway between sexual and asexual (Grey Ace/Heterodemisexual) but I’ve been more asexual/heteroromantic most of my life and could easily live without ”it” (I’d rather have a cup of tea tbh!). On the downside, I do feel very isolated at times, being an INFJ also adds to the challenge of getting out of my comfort zone. I’ve been alone for 12 years now as it’s less complicated. I also have a medical condition which may have contributed to a lack of desire in latter years but it is what it is and I accept that!
I don’t know anyone who is like me so BIG respect to us for putting ourselves out there like this. My goal for 2019 is to meet others in a similar boat and to have friendships with other aces where I don’t feel like an oddball. This is the first step I guess!