- Favorite Vacations Spot
Seattle, WA, New York City, NY, and Cannon Beach,OR
- Ideal First Date
Coffee and walking around in deep conversation
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
I selected ”men” for who I am looking for because I have dated men in the past, but I am not completely discounting a relationship with a woman.
Someone who has a defined sense of style. Enjoys long conversations. Is passionate about something, anything, the interest need not even overlap with my own personal interests but as long as you have something you can enjoy and share that joy with others. Critical thinking and compassion are a must haves. And can handle my sense of humor.
Most important the types of qualities I desire is someone who knows who they are, knows how to take care of themselves, and has a strong idea of where they want to be in the future.
That may seem a bit vague or need not be said, but those are important traits I appreciate in even friends. Some of those traits sadly can describe a lot of people that haven’t gotten to that place in life, and I hope they get there but I would like someone who is past that phase.
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- About me
Let’s get down to brass tax because writing this ”About me” is cutting into my precious limited time where I eat too many habanero pork rinds and claim that my eyes are tearing up because they are too spicy and not because I am totally into Korean dramas and they just *get* me.
I have a pretty solid sense of self; I’m not some wilting insecure lily that needs to be reassured with ego strokes and placations. I got flaws, I got some positive traits too and for the former of which I cannot change, I’ve made peace with them, and for the latter, I try not to let them go to my head.
I work hard, sometimes a little too much, but I am certainly enjoying growing skull collection* and as of late I have reconnected with my passion for photography. I enjoy watching horror movies, good ones and trashy gross ones. Lloyd Kaufman is a personal hero of mine. And I enjoy reading those pretentious maximalist brinks of literature because who doesn’t want to spend hours thinking of the symbolism, tracking the confusing shifts of perspective and sequence of events, and wondering if the author is secretly laughing at you. But I enjoy it so who cares?
My sense of humor has been described as ”twisted” but I think they are just exaggerating because who doesn’t think that putting a carrot that looks like a finger in a jar of vinegar, and insisting it is a real finger, is a light fun joke for the office.
Despite my best efforts I still get these pesky things called feelings and I do have the inclination to help people the best I can, and as of lately I have felt something that might be called something like ** shuffles papers ** loneliness. So yeah.
I could talk more about myself but I the more I talk about myself the more I have a creeping worry that I am coming off as a narcissist. So I am going to stop now.
* Don’t have a cow, I found a few cow and elk bones in the woods. Pretty sure they died of natural causes. But if anyone else asks I got them from a leisurely weekend of animal sacrifice.
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