Foremost, I am looking for someone who can tip me off on how to get this site to work!  It won’t let me join (”membership” button is broken) to be able to post in forums.  People send me messages, but I get a 404 page when I try to respond.  I’ve filled out contact forms, but no one answers.  This is true for multiple web browsers.  How can I participate?  Can anyone help me?

I am a grey-panromantic, sex-indifferent asexual.  I am looking for a long term monogamous relationship with an adult human that should hopefully lead to marriage.  I am happy with a sexless relationship.  I am able to work with a relationship where the other person does want sex, but this is a very slow-going thing for me.  I am equally comfortable with all gender identities and lack thereof, as well as races/ethnicities.  I do not want children.

There is no need for the geek-nerd-dork debate. I am all of the above. I am a lover of science and language, books and music, cats and hedgehogs, comedians and poets, science fiction and fantasy, faeries and rainbows, gardening and cooking, musicals and role-playing games, anime and comics, tea and spices… And I excel at awkwardness. Truly excel.

I was recently informed that I have a very ”cottagecore” vibe, and that not knowing what ”cottagecore” was is, itself, very ”cottagecore.”

I am an Elder Millennial and yet blissfully cut off from social media. I am a paediatric physical therapist and I absolutely adore Other People’s Children, though I choose to be child-free. I am a leftist, a progressive, an environmentalist, a humanist, an animal-lover, a vegetarian, and generally just a ball of cozy fluff.

INFJ/”Advocate”/”Counselor” Myers-Briggs, since people ask about these things still. XD

***Please Read This Note: I’ve included in this profile that I am disabled, chronically ill, autistic, asexual, and child-free. This is so that you have an easy way out, namely not contacting me if any of these things is a hard-stop for you. These things are part of me and they aren’t going to change.***

***COVID Note: I am fully vaxxed and boosted (#PfizerPfam), but I am high risk and I work with medically fragile children who cannot get vaccinated. I am not even visiting my family indoors right now and only ”going somewhere” the two days a week where I am working onsite instead of by telehealth (aside from being outside, of course). No social event is worth me or my patients dying or developing additional life-long disabilities and health complications. I’m sorry, but I’m all online/phone and outdoors with only other vaccinated people for a while.  Masks are still required in close quarters or groups.***