I think I am attracted to people that are sensitive, caring, rebelling/ speaking up against injustice, eccentric and a bit hippie 🙂 People that wanna change the world and live differently.
Two important things:
Firstly, I am looking for someone who wants (to learn) to communicate very openly, who is open minded and wants to grow themselves. For me, open communication is very important (about what you need, when you feel connected, how I make you feel, etc), because it builds up the relationship and it makes me feel safe and connected. So just speak your mind if you’re wondering about telling or asking something, I’d like to tell you my crazy thoughts too 😉
* I am learning about ethical non-monogamy and polyamory, are you open to learn about that too and talk about how it makes us feel/ if that could be something/ about what we need?
Lastly, I find it very important that someone is seeking to create a fair world where every ethnicity, personality characteristic and body can thrive. Caring for ourselves and our surroundings. Not judging, but unlearning the toxic behaviour that we all have because of unjust & unethical systems in society, and creating a safe space for everyone. These values are very important to me.
It would be nice if someone lives in The Netherlands. I prefer meeting up in real life. Do you wanna join me in demonstrations, or learn about the diversity and awesomeness of people and nature?
Age: ideally 21-29. Male, non-binary, agender, trans, female..
A little crazy and happy fluttering like a butterfly, but also sensitive, thoughtful, creative, critic, philosophical and searching for (social) depth.
I am an open-minded primary school teacher student (last year) with a big heart for people. I plead for seeing more value in lives & opinions of others and in nature. I love being a little crazy or impulsive, haha. To go against the norms society wants us to conform to. I don’t want to live a normal life, but seek for the essence of life. I’d love to live a simple life. Maybe just a warm eco community where people look after each other, have deep conversations and have fun together. A happy place 🙂 Will see how life develops!
I love wandering in nature, cuddling (never enough of that in my life), being creative, playing board games, spontaneously meet up with people, singing and having deep conversations about life.
Subjects that currently have my attention are unlearning patriarchy and capitalism, decolonizing and better self talk. And I am interested in demonstrating for even more subjects (climate change, Indigenous People, BLM, LGBTQ+, housing protest, etc). The connections between these topics interest me a lot.
I don’t want to put a label on myself when it comes to sexuality. I don’t think anymore that I am asexual: I used to because I had a biggg taboo around pleasure and romance and stuff. Still growing out of it. So I don’t know if I belong here anymore, but in all situations I pay a lot of attention to what feels safe for both and just see what happens. For me, it can be different with every person and situation (that’s why open communication is so important). Cuddles are important to me, sexual intimacy and kissing aren’t. I am mostly interested in polyamorous or non-monogamous relationships, but also open to monogamous and polygamous relationships.
Labels: (proud) ADD-er, HSP, ENFP-T
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