- About me
Hello! My name is Lauren!
I live in the San Fernando Valley and I work as a child behavior therapist. I love it! Working with kids is so fulfilling and I’m a huge kid at heart, so I always feel right at home. When I’m not working I love to draw and play video games. I’m a huge nerd and I love to geek out about the things I love. I’m happy with who I am and where I am in my life and that’s something I want to maintain and sincerely hope for for others as well. I love watching people get excited about the things they’re passionate about. As overly simplistic as it sounds, my biggest dream would simply be to have somebody I’m comfortable sharing my passions and feelings with completely unapologetically. That’s a role that a variety of people could fill one day, so I hesitate to write what specifically I’m ”looking for,” since concrete lists inevitably tend to constrain the number of people you would otherwise be open to meeting. Being picky may save time and energy, but at the end of the day, I would rather be someone who aspires to be open-minded.
The premise of this site in general is a little strange to me, because as an asexual/aromantic, I have no desire to find ”the one.” Any effort to date or feign romantic interest seems pointless and unfair, and the only reason I would be interested in dating would be to maintain social expectations (which again, is unfair to all parties involved, not to mention dishonest to myself). That being said, whenever I use this site for its intended purposes, I lose interest. So instead, this is what I’m ”looking for”: a friend. Someone who understands what it’s like to feel the way we all do here, and is willing and as eager as I am to make connections with other people for the sake of the connection instead of the sexual conquest that so many other places will emphasize. Please, friend me, message me, tell me about yourself, man or woman, it doesn’t matter, I promise I want to get to know you and I want to connect with you.
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