- About me
hi, i’m freya. i’m 33, living in eastern iowa. i’ll be the first to tell you i’m very difficult to love, and most people run away in 1 to 3 weeks; i’m very depressed and don’t feel enjoyment in anything, and suffer from autism, BPD, and PTSD [also physically disabled]. i’m monogamous and childfree, and need a partner who is the same. i’m a sex-averse asexual, so i want to never have any kind of sex. the most important thing for me in a partner, besides monogamy, is having someone who won’t run away when my life gets too stressful–someone who will be a true partner and not just a flaky boyfriend who only loves me when it doesn’t inconvenience them–only when i’m not so depressive that it worsens their depression [that’s when they usually disappear, calling it ”justified self-care” instead of ”avoiding responsibility by neglecting me”]. fear of abandonment rules over my life, so when my partner bails on me for being too sad, it just validates my self-loathing. my interests involve video games [mostly JRPGs for switch/ps1-ps4/3ds], heavy metal [folk metal especially], pro wrestling [AEW], and animals. i don’t like cigarette smoke, strippers, porn, alcohol, or alcoholics. i do use cannabis for various physical and mental conditions, so i need a partner who won’t discriminate against me based on that. i have social anxiety and don’t do group activities, and have a hard time with paying attention and following along with stories, so that means *no* board or card games, LARP, or D&D. sorry, i’m pretty boring, and not someone people want to show their friends [i’m incredibly disappointing to explain to others too–i’m on disability and will never work, drive, or have my own place]. i just want a quiet, introverted life staying home with a partner and pets, cuddling and watching media.
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