Honest and Open

@gerda active 3 years, 1 month ago

 

Looking for
About me
  • Things I am looking for in a person are:

    UPDATE: I have started a new relationship and am not currently available.

    o   A good, nice and sweet man who also has spark, tang, piquancy, pizzazz — something in that vein — ex., dry wit, adventurousness, liveliness, word-play hijinks – a ”live wire” — to live together as life partners, share our joys and divide our woes, and enjoy the warmth, stability and security that can come with a good partnership.

    o   Conversations of real substance are important to me.

    o   I also have to be attracted to the person, pheromone-wise.  Nothing you can do about that, but just letting you know.

    o   I am always trying to grow as a person; would like a partner who would enjoy using our relationship as a crucible for mutually-supported growth.  Or if you don’t need to grow, if you would at least support me.

    o   It would be great if you liked to dance, or wanted to learn with me.  A peak experience for me was when leadership flowed back and forth between my dance partner and me.

    o   Also, healthy lifestyle — or genuine striving for it, anyway.

    o   My therapist encourages me to look for the most ”differentiated” person I can find, and I am trying.  I love to talk about psychology and relationships.  If you like to talk about those things we’ll have something in common right off the bat.

    About me

    Ø  Recently left a sexual relationship.  Whew!

    Ø  I make a conscious effort to be respectful of others, which is a bottom line for me.

    Ø  ”Live and let live” is my slogan.

    Ø  Love to be near my partner, ex. both of us sitting /lying in bed together, reading, on the computer, talking, even cuddling, etc.

    Ø  I am quite serious and intellectual.

    Ø  When it comes to movies, I prefer dramas, documentaries, true stories.

    Ø  Music: ballads & standards (Cole Porter, Gershwin, Berlin), jazz & swing, old school black music (soul, funk, R&B), Latin dance music, “world” dance music, oldies rock ‘n’ roll, classical.

    Ø  I love word play.  As I alluded to above, I revel in dry humor (my father is Danish, and it seems to go with the culture).

    Ø  Like to be outside, and to go cycling — off- or on-road.

    Ø  I like to think I have ”spark ”  or “pizzazz”, and also that I am rational and reasonable.  These latter two are characteristics I also connect with my Danish heritage.  Check out the Danish “West Wing” – “Borgen” – and you’ll see what I mean.

    Ø  Big on dancing, esp. partner dancing.

    Ø  Idealistic.

    Ø  Frugal.  Interested in living a sustainable lifestyle.

    Ø  Am right in the middle between introverted and extroverted.  I like to entertain, and would love to have a partner that enjoyed having a group of friends over —  even holding “salons”(!) — but I can only take so much socializing before I have to stop and recharge my batteries.

    Ø  I have problematic characteristics as well as charms, and I’ll be honest and open about them if we get that far.  But a major problem for previous partners was that I didn’t enjoy sex, and that won’t be a problem for you!  You can email me at melnel88@gmail.com

  • Name

    Honest and Open

    Age

    59

    Country

    United States

    City

    Hadley, MA

    I am a

    Woman

    Looking for a

    Man

    Marital status

    Living together

    Language

    English

    Ethnicity

    Caucasian

    Faith

    Spiritual bu not religious

    Interests

    Art, Dancing, Going out with friends, Health, Fitness, Diet, Listeing to Music, Music, Nature, Reading, Social work, Traveling, Watching Movies, Yoga, Meditation

  • Base
    Name

    Honest and Open

    Age

    59

    Country

    United States

    City

    Hadley, MA

    I am a

    Woman

    Looking for a

    Man

    Marital status

    Living together

    Language

    English

    Ethnicity

    Caucasian

    Faith

    Spiritual bu not religious

    Interests

    Art, Dancing, Going out with friends, Health, Fitness, Diet, Listeing to Music, Music, Nature, Reading, Social work, Traveling, Watching Movies, Yoga, Meditation

  • Looking For
    Things I am looking for in a person are:

    UPDATE: I have started a new relationship and am not currently available.

    o   A good, nice and sweet man who also has spark, tang, piquancy, pizzazz — something in that vein — ex., dry wit, adventurousness, liveliness, word-play hijinks – a ”live wire” — to live together as life partners, share our joys and divide our woes, and enjoy the warmth, stability and security that can come with a good partnership.

    o   Conversations of real substance are important to me.

    o   I also have to be attracted to the person, pheromone-wise.  Nothing you can do about that, but just letting you know.

    o   I am always trying to grow as a person; would like a partner who would enjoy using our relationship as a crucible for mutually-supported growth.  Or if you don’t need to grow, if you would at least support me.

    o   It would be great if you liked to dance, or wanted to learn with me.  A peak experience for me was when leadership flowed back and forth between my dance partner and me.

    o   Also, healthy lifestyle — or genuine striving for it, anyway.

    o   My therapist encourages me to look for the most ”differentiated” person I can find, and I am trying.  I love to talk about psychology and relationships.  If you like to talk about those things we’ll have something in common right off the bat.

    About me

    Ø  Recently left a sexual relationship.  Whew!

    Ø  I make a conscious effort to be respectful of others, which is a bottom line for me.

    Ø  ”Live and let live” is my slogan.

    Ø  Love to be near my partner, ex. both of us sitting /lying in bed together, reading, on the computer, talking, even cuddling, etc.

    Ø  I am quite serious and intellectual.

    Ø  When it comes to movies, I prefer dramas, documentaries, true stories.

    Ø  Music: ballads & standards (Cole Porter, Gershwin, Berlin), jazz & swing, old school black music (soul, funk, R&B), Latin dance music, “world” dance music, oldies rock ‘n’ roll, classical.

    Ø  I love word play.  As I alluded to above, I revel in dry humor (my father is Danish, and it seems to go with the culture).

    Ø  Like to be outside, and to go cycling — off- or on-road.

    Ø  I like to think I have ”spark ”  or “pizzazz”, and also that I am rational and reasonable.  These latter two are characteristics I also connect with my Danish heritage.  Check out the Danish “West Wing” – “Borgen” – and you’ll see what I mean.

    Ø  Big on dancing, esp. partner dancing.

    Ø  Idealistic.

    Ø  Frugal.  Interested in living a sustainable lifestyle.

    Ø  Am right in the middle between introverted and extroverted.  I like to entertain, and would love to have a partner that enjoyed having a group of friends over —  even holding “salons”(!) — but I can only take so much socializing before I have to stop and recharge my batteries.

    Ø  I have problematic characteristics as well as charms, and I’ll be honest and open about them if we get that far.  But a major problem for previous partners was that I didn’t enjoy sex, and that won’t be a problem for you!  You can email me at melnel88@gmail.com

  • Detailed Profile Info
    Looking for

    Serious Relationshiop

    Smoking

    Never

    Height

    5' 7"

    Weight

    125 lbs.

    Hair Color

    Blond

    Eye Color

    Blue

    Body Type

    Slender

    Best Feature

    Fair and rational; truly want the best for everyone, and try to live accordingly.

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