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    Asexual Cougar, looking for her cute asexual cub in his 20s. Love lots of tongue kissing for hours, without sex ever, PDA, no sex, no marriage, no kids, hate nudity. Love lots of messaging and chatting. I like a teenager style relationship and romance 24/7. Honesty and communication is a must. Especially love foreign guys, Indian the most. Must be a non-smoker.

    I realise since my last relationship that I could possibly be with a cute younger British guy, in his 20s, not just a foreign guy. British guy ideal age for me would be 21-26, and someone who likes to have the sort of teenager style relationship that I am looking for. My ideal foreign guy age would be 21-28.

    I am looking for a soulmate, a guy who I am deeply connected with and emotionally bonded to. I need the guy to my best friend and want to share all his most intimate thoughts, feelings, and secrets with me. I need a really open and honest guy in this way for me. A strong guy, who knows what he wants in his life, and who is prepared to do whatever it takes to get and keep a good relationship with me. Relationships take work, time and effort, so I need a guy who is serious about a relationship with me.

    I love passionate tongue kissing lots, like a hobby, for hours and hours. I am a bit of a kissing addict, but hate sex! So looking for a guy who loves romance and kissing as much as me, with clothes on.

    I love cuddling and communicating/messaging lots. Watching movies, listening to music, dancing, going out for meals, going the theme parks, zoos and aquariums.

    Not interested in sex, or marriage, or kids.

    About me

    Asexual Author/Entrepreneur. Lively, bubbly, energetic Heteroromantic Asexual, I love blogging, Vlogging, and living a quirky life to the max. I have a 21st mindset and I enjoy living like a teenager to the max!

    If you want to know more about asexuality subscribe to : 

    I am into Disney and superhero movies, website design  and personal and professional development. Writing is my hugest passion.

    I am the Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity – out out Amazon in both Kindle and Paperback. Check it out…

    ”In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?

    Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.

    Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!

    If you identify as asexual do you –

    Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
    Feel alone?
    Broken?Left out?
    Not recognised?
    Have no one to relate to?
    Find it difficult to find others like you?
    Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?
    Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships?

    If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!

    In this book you will:

    Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.
    Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.
    Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!
    Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.
    Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.
    Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.
    Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.
    Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.
    Uncover the positives about being asexual.
    Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.

    I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.

    Shop for Asexual Perspectives On Amazon in both digital and paperback:

    I hold some small Ace Meets in Exeter, UK, and love bringing aces together. These meets are not intended to be for dating, but to just meet other aces, although you may meet someone there who suits you.

    I freed myself from depression in 2012, using my ’Embrace Your Quirky’ philosophy and turned my whole life around. I love being quirky and don’t do normal. I get bored easily so like to be doing something all of the time. I hate sex and nudity, but love passionately kissing with the tongue. I don’t smoke, take drugs or drink alcohol. I don’t eat pork, lamb or beef. I am not a sightseer, but a doer and go-getter. Life is too short not to be taking action and living the life of your dreams. My goal is to be a world renowned author and an inspirational speaker on stage in London.

    Check out my website for asexuals

    Find me on Twitter

    I have a FB page about asexuality

    I run 

    and specifically for asexuals who never want sex!

    I also have a Grey Asexual and Demisexual Dating Group
    Skype name is sandrabellamybeatredundancyblues

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