@couldhaveswornihityou active 1 year, 1 month ago


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  • Things I am looking for in a person are:

    If you are interested in a long term relationship with me, the first thing you need to know is that I do not kiss anyone but my cat. End of story, no exceptions, I am not interested, look elsewhere if that’s what you’re looking for. I do, however, very much enjoy cuddling, hand holding, and other sentimental gestures.


    About me

    I do not not define love by gender. People are people, love is love, if you can’t deal please vacate this page at your earliest convenience 🙂

    INTJ-A. If you don’t know what this means maybe you should take the Myer’s Briggs test to determine if you think you could be compatible with me. Although to be fair, the description isn’t entirely accurate for myself seeing as I’m the random Creative/Artistic INTJ. I like to build worlds in my mind and then either sketch a character or write a small bit of fiction.

    I happily identify as an Atheist and am entirely uninterested in any religious jargon.

    Very much a Cat person (not a fan of dogs at all).

    Artist. I specialize in digital drawings, but will get crafty with anything -costume design, carving, fake sword making, cooking, you name it. I consider life to be one big art project and accept the challenge gladly.

    Writer -just some fan fiction or a few short stories here and there. I mainly write homo erotica. Yet again, if you can’t deal, you are more than welcome to leave.

    Costume designer -I have won several cosplay contests, and will happily show off pictures.

    The list goes on, I’ve lived a very full/fast paced life and gone on many adventures. (jet skiing/swimming with dolphins, parasailing, touring Europe, etc..) Send me a message if you’re actually interested in a successful long term relationship, and you’d like me to expound on any of these topics/exchange stories 🙂

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