- Things I am looking for in a person are:
I am looking for a Bulgarian female, but as time passes I see I should be more open about the possibility to find a partner from abroad. My partner must be asexual and vegetarian or vegan. I also want her to be non-religious, and I imagine her to be an introvert like me. I believe that the more similar two people are, the closer they can be, generally. That’s how I view friendships too, and a ”relationship” is heavily based on friendship. I’m also looking for friends, online and offline!
- About me
30 years old asexual guy from Bulgaria. I am very sensitive and quite emotional, very introverted, and (I dare to say) intelligent. I have a melancholic temperament, and although reminiscing the past is one of my main ”fuels”, actually most of the time when I’m not stressed or anxious I like to be in an upbeat mood, listen to music and have fun in my geeky ways. I don’t like drama, but when I get in one I can be very affected by it. (2019 update: a person who is positive despite being fragile and sensitive like me inspired me to avoid drama as it leads to no good.) The world is full of bad and sad things and even if something doesn’t affect me directly, it can be a reason for angst and sadness in me. (Update: that same person indirectly made me see that if I keep suffering for being unable to stop all the suffering and injustice in the world, I will only suffer and change it no more than 0.00000001%, whereas if I’m happy despite this, I will make one person less unhappy – me – thus making the world a better place and changing it more profoundly, although the percent will still be tiny – but bigger!) A severe overthinker (update: I’m finally fighting this more successfully!), I analyze everything, all the time, which is one of the main reasons I’m so depressive, though ironically I am more joyful than basically all my friends and I sometimes look optimistic in comparison. In recent years my mood is actually quite good most of the time (compared to my teen years) thanks to antidepressants (clinical depression is a serious illness) and due to a comparative lack of stress. Stress kills me, which is why I try to avoid it as much as possible. I need a long time to recover from it, especially when it’s caused by social interaction. I am a perfectionist, and it often creates a lot of problems for me. I am quite the information sponge and love reading about all kinds of things, among them linguistics, geography, philosophy, psychology, rational thinking, different fields of science, electronics, video games, electronic and rock music, etc. I’m an IN*J, previously considered myself INTJ but I’ve come to realize I’m definitely closer to INFJ. Although I am rational by nature, I have a hard time suppressing my feelings – this conflict between rationality and emotionality is one of the sources of suffering for me, especially since I am an idealist and real life is dystopic. I’m vegetarian, have been almost all my life, and in recent years I have taken some steps towards becoming vegan (though it’s a slow process for me). I am anti-religious, and identify as an agnostic atheist (this label comes closest to my views). I am heteroromantic. I have prime membership simply because my account is very old and was granted it automatically.
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