- I am a
- Looking for a
- Marital status
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
I am looking for a relationship that can last a lifetime. I am demisexual hetero, so physical attraction only comes in once emotional attraction exists. Hence I mainly dream of someone I emotionally connect with, and with whom that connection never fades. The type of girl that is a reflection of myself, and who doesn’t only have a lot in common with me but can keep surprising me with her sense of humor, her creativity, her knowledge, …
If you are a girl aged 20-late thirties, you adore art (poetry, music, optional bonuses are literature and painting) and traveling, and you love a good conversation or debate about meaningful subjects … then please don’t hesitate to contact me 🙂
Distance isn’t the big problem, I believe that with love and dedication involved, distance can be overcome. Religion is also no issue ; I am not religious myself but very open-minded and respectful to any kind of belief.
- About me
Belgian who lived abroad 8 years, shattered across 6 countries. I adored Belfast, Istanbul and Barcelona most. In the future, I may be open to relocate abroad again, subject as well to where my future girlfriend is from and/or what her dreams are. I have a very strong interest in Scandinavia and the Middle East.
I write and perform poetry, and adore it. I try to break taboos on psychological issues using poetry, speeches and opinion pieces to communicate with people. I write articles too, and love photography.
Art means a lot to me. While writing poetry and articles actively, I also am a (passive) music obsessive. I love music that can reach my emotions or make me think about society and our world ; so I focus heavily on lyrics. I love bands such as The Smiths, Orphaned Land, Echo & The Bunnymen, Sophya, The God Machine, A Perfect Circle, Sophia, Manic Street Preachers, … Not saying a nice romantic song or guilty pleasure from the nineties isn’t welcome neither!
I love long conversations about meaningful subjects such as justice, politics, filosophy, … but I can equally enjoy some good humor and laughter. A nice conversation with a nice lady can last a whole evening and night if it depends on me 🙂
I have Asperger Syndrome, suffer from OCD and erotophobia, and am high sensitive. By trying to raise awareness I am trying to make something positive out of this, it’s the only way that I can use my issues for the good cause. I also hope to find a girl who sees beyond those medical reports and sees the romantic, dreamy, idealistic, arts-loving person that I am. I also try to intensively enjoy the beautiful moments and never take those for granted ; that way I try to use my being HSP as a positive thing. I either have deep sadness or intense joy, nothing in between. Focusing on the intense joy and treasuring those moments, can make being high sensitive a gift, I strongly believe.
More information Always available upon request! 🙂