- Things I am looking for in a person are:
I am looking for a serious non-anal homoromantic monogamous relationship. I don’t actually identify as asexual, at least in the typical sense I don’t. I love just as passionately as anyone, both literally and figuratively; I’m just not into anal.
As far as the tiny part of my sexuality (so tiny an electron microscope wouldn’t even get it) that I guess is technically asexual, I do wanna’ give my SINCEREST apologies if my using the term at all to describe that certain part of myself offends anyone. I understand if it does and I do apologize. Invalidating, discriminating, ostracizing, taking advantage of, or disrespecting anyone’s struggle is what I am NOT here to do. I have relentless admiration and relentless empathy for how tough it must be to find a relationship in our superfluously hyper sexual world for anyone who is only interested in very little to no sexual interaction of whatever the kind.
What I CAN say however, is that in juxtapose to the number of gay men only looking for romantic relationships that include anal sex, I (from at least as far as my own experiences have gone trying to navigate the gay dating world) am BEYOND an outlier. In the sense of my having next to no interest in gay anal sex, I believe to identify with a small (but no less legitimate) piece of asexuality.
I would very much so love to be a serious something to someone. As tough as it is for anyone in general, I am doing what I can to try and make that a thing 🙂
Thanks for checking out my profile, feel free to message me! Talk to you soon!
“Romance is finding your fantasy in people who don’t have it.”
“If he love her once, he admires her for all this. He takes no notice of any such errors or imperfections of body or mind.”
- About me
Currently In My World & About Myself Personally:
I am fighting adamantly for my independence. I adore and am extremely close to my awesome and loving parents, but am VERY ready to move out lol! Coming up on a year out of finishing graduate school but still unyieldingly (and passive-aggressively -__- ) looking for full-time work and boyfriend’ness.
Goofy and Silly are probably the 2 words that describe me the best! I would say my goofiness and silliness are definitely a byproduct of my striving to be as thankful, humble, caring, and empathetic as I can in life.
When I’m not focused on trying to find full-time work and a boyfriend, my biggest passion is probably Old-School 1970s R&B, Funk, and Disco. I am a fanatathusiast of the aforementioned genre(s) and love listening to and boogieing to what IS the greatest music ever!
I’m big into Marvel Comics, anime, retro-gaming, editing & arranging music, documentaries, shopping, being an extrovert, and pretty much anything related to social justice and the treatment of minorities. I’m as opinionated as I am open-minded, I love to challenge views and have my views challenged, and I love to love AND dance (referring to the words of the 1976 song “I Love To Love” by Tina Charles) lol!
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