Vanessa the fox

@vanessa86 active 1 day, 5 hours ago

 

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About me
  • Things I am looking for in a person are:

    Apparently being warm, caring and supportive is not what people look for so i’m single again. Please choose me if you disagree with the above.

    Eh yea i’m all pan and stuff, so don’t feel scared by my search field since the site apparently does not acknowledge people who don’t care about gender.

    About me

    Hey hey! I’m Vanessa. I’m a male-to-female transgender. I’’m on HRT since newyear 2016-2017

    I’m a  an anime-otaku and love listening to nineties music and punkrock. (not listeing like this website writes it) A bit interested in history and geography and stuff like that as well.

    I’m sweet, funny and a bit stalky as i need a lot of attention. Don’t be scared by that. I’m supportive to everyone but i am allergic to bullshit (and pollen), people are too easy to read on some things so if you plan on messing with me or expecting a special treatment, i’m sure you will be notified of the path towards the door quickly.

    I you think i’m an arrogant bitch, you probably asked for it, if you think i’m sweet and caring, you probably are a good person as well. My behaviour tends to unconciously mirror that of the people i talk to.

    I’m a fox girl, so you know i’m a bit stubborn and temperamental but also super duper fluffy and protective. Playful but not on your terms.

    Add me on discord butterfox #1373

  • Name

    Vanessa the fox

    Age

    32

    Country

    Belgium

    City

    Hasselt

    I am a

    Woman

    Marital status

    Living together

    Language

    Dutch/Africaans, English

    Ethnicity

    Caucasian

    Faith

    None / Agnostic

    Interests

    Listeing to Music

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  • #30854

    Vanessa the fox
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    That’s a fiarly short debate: the website is poorly run.

    #30739

    Vanessa the fox
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    i’m just straightforward

    #30722

    Vanessa the fox
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    I got all respect for introverts. It’s an alien world, but i don’t mind having some alien friends.

    #30717

    Vanessa the fox
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    I’m not comfortable with being alone because i gain energy from other people (with the exception of disrespectful people, clearly) and being alone costs me more energy. I’m used to being alone because i’m not socially competent, but being alone is a hard burden for me. It’s just not who i’m meant to be.
    Surving without partners, barely. At this time i have more important things to worry about like my transition but once that is done, i bet the lonelyness might feel stronger. Unless if given a chance by someone i like, of course. You never know.

    When alone i can operate at maximum 10-20% of my capabilities. These days doing it alone and deliberately choosing the introvert life is kind of hip, but it’s not my thing. Saying i need others seems to be a taboo. I always get speeches that i should live for myself alone. But that’s just not how i roll.

    I survive, but i only survive, i don’t really live.

    #30704

    Vanessa the fox
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    Hey Suzanne, we were just saying each others opinions on friendly terms, don’t worry about it!

    #30700

    Vanessa the fox
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    Well Elizabeth, i don’t let the society norm rule my life, i only said it was ‘inconvenient’.

    #30696

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    I don’t particularly see any significant benefits. I’m fairly neutral to being who i am. I’m defenitely glad that sexual instincts don’t rule my life and i feel it allows me to see the world more objectively. On the other hand being seen as someone weird and mentally ill isn’t exactly convenient. I think the extremes balance each other out.

    #30669

    Vanessa the fox
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    Hm with me in the beginning there can be some kind of ‘theoretical’ sex drive. So only in my mind, not in my body. Nevertheless, i learned to fall for people based on other things than looks so it’s no longer hindering me, since i avoid relationships with people i’m theoretically-sexually attracted to.

    #30531

    Vanessa the fox
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    People have selfless desires, like caring for children whose parents died etc. That’s probably how asexuality first originated. The desire to care is stronger than the desire to procreate. How self-centered asexuals reason i can’t answer you.

    On the other hand it’s not like asexuals are incapable of reproduction, they just sunconciously know it’s not necessairy and thus shift their focus on more important things. Like, almost everything. We live in a world where extinction of the species due to natural causes is extremely unlikely, therefore we do not have the need to perform reproduction to fullfill our social role. It’s not like asexuals don’t have libido either. They just evolved beyond beastly desires. Why? Because we can. A lot in evolution happens ‘because we can’.

    #30527

    Vanessa the fox
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    if you name all beautiful things, you’ll find only a little few that have usefulness towards reproduction and thousands of things that have no correlation whatsoever. That means that either to you this world is so ugly that you only see an extremely limited amount of beautiful things, which suggests depression or either you’re just discussing for the sake of discussing. It sounds a lot like you’re trying to ‘convert’ us. And of course our gene pool cares about sciencentific discoveries and art, why else would those abilities even be in our genes. Both are things that increase our chances of survival in a non-sexual way. (art makes happy and happyness keeps the morale to survive high, discoveries makes groups of people more knowledgeable, knowledge will be carried over, etc.)

    People died because of a hostile environment (wilderness, disease, etc.). Mortality rates didn’t show the curve that justifies that explanation. For that mortality suddenly had to rise from a certain age, whilst in almost all societies it was a gradual increase in mortality, not a sudden rise. Only in todays world where most dangers are eliminated you see a sudden rise in mortality from a certain age, and that is long past their reproduction usefulness, but around the time they no longer are useful for doing work. Which is a bigger contribution to survival than reproduction.

    Our genes are set up this way that we can each be useful in our own ways and that’s why our genes differ and make sure not everyone is allosexual, because that would’ve likely hurt chances of survival if there were no childrenless people who could serve as 1) a backup for the high mortality rate in adults 2) do other tasks in society because they have more time on their hands. Ever since human lives in societies, our brain has evolved reapidly in such a way that we found more ways of survival than just one. That is one of the strenghts of humans, the ability to diversify, yet you want to reduce to being mere beasts.

    Babies are considered ugly by most ‘except their own one’, so that’s a non-argument and even insulting towards parents.

    #30521

    Vanessa the fox
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    Theres millions of ways one can be useful/meaningful without any relevance to sexuality. And ach person gives meaning in their own way. I dont really see why this is even a question.

    #30519

    Vanessa the fox
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    I think appreciation for beauty is a reflection of humans desire to strive for the best possible things in general. Sex is just one of so many thousands of things the could be potentially influential. Reproduction is regulated by feromones, not by beauty. Allosexuals can easily be attracted to someone who is not beautiful in their own standards.

    #30179

    Vanessa the fox
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    That’s a bummer. Ah well, then i’ll have to put the RL pictures as main picture instead.

    #30172

    Vanessa the fox
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    Does anyone know how to update the other photos on this website? I can only upload a new profile picture, but i can not add additional photos and also do not have access to the additional photos i’ve already put on here.

    #30032

    Vanessa the fox
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    One of the issues i bump on here is that most people tend to be from the states. Though in essence i’m not against an ldr, it of course creates boundaries. But i also noticed plenty of Brits which is less far away so don’t be shy of talking to me ^^

    #30008

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    #29799

    Vanessa the fox
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    Well since i’m trans i’ve got lot of experience with estrogen and testosteron-blockers.

    Theres nothing dangerous about it if you follow the legal path.

    Of course it’s ethical, but it’s not something i would suggest anyone taking unless really necessairy. It’s not exactly a fun experience.

    A higher sex drive won’t solve asexuality though, don’t be mistaken. Before my hormones my drive was high enough, i still was ace as fuck (no pun intended). It will probably only make you feel worse…

    #29798

    Vanessa the fox
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    Somehow i can’t get people older than 22 or so :s Wheres those 30’s folks at?

    #29797

    Vanessa the fox
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    to answer your question, a fox witch is a witch accompanied or posessed by a fox spirit. Feelers of truth, often wrongfully gets seen as manipulators of truth. Fox spirits usually chooses humans who are broken beyond repair or close to death.

    #29796

    Vanessa the fox
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    Pick me pick me! Lol. But yeah it’d be awesome.

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