Someone who considers how they contribute to the world as well as their immediate environment. If you vote left of centre, we will get along.

Someone who has a playful energy for life & all it has to offer – hopefully you are able to enjoy puns (or able to tolerate). Simultaneously, someone who considers a ”boring” life to be one of contentment & serenity.

Someone who is academically minded and/or able to hold space for deep, thoughtful conversations. Someone who finds respectful, open-minded & inclusive conversations satisfying.

Someone who is already happy on their own.

British Born Chinese (BBC). Scottish accent, often mistaken to be Canadian. I tend to get along with nerdy people.

Being a monogamous demi-romantic,  it takes me a greater amount of time to ”fall in love”. It worries me not, fortunately I am good at keeping myself occupied. I would much prefer to be with a compatible partner in my 50s & bring up a puppy than be with an incompatible partner in my 30s & bring up (a) child(ren).

Being multi-lingual, I am neither here nor there, yet always inbetween. I slip between languages & occasionally mix up cultures. I am responsible & serious when life demands. Occasionally, a much goofier side comes out to play & I am delighted when finding myself in a battle of wits amongst friends. With Buddhist/Taoist influences, I am agnostic.

Being demi-sensual, I enjoy hand-holding, cuddles & kisses once we know each other well enough.

I am not looking for a Long Distance Relationship (LDR). Being demi-sensual, I’d like to be physically close with a partner whilst watching a film or reading a book. However, if you live outwith (Scottish word not many people believe exists) UK & wish to have a pen-pal type friendship, I would be open to that.

Without a paid membership, I will not be able to access messages nor contribute to forums/groups here.

Should you wish to write  – SoupDumplingAce@gmail.com

If you are the one who clicks on ’Add Friend’ first, I would really appreciate an introductory email.

If I am the one to click ’Add Friend’ first, it is because something you have written has made me consider you a kindred spirit & I will write you- please provide an email contact.

EDIT: To the person who’d sent a message on June 23rd – I have no access to messages. Please feel free to provide an email contact.