- Looking for a
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
What I would like from a partner or friend. If you could fulfill any of these niches that would be awesome but by no means would you have be able to do everything I listed.
I would love to have an activity partner. Someone I could draw with on occasions whether it be online or in person. I want to get better on my drawing skills and I know it would be easier if someone else is there to accompany me on this journey and give me encouragement.
I’d also love it if we could watch shows together. I know many of you live far away from me so I’ve come with creative ways to watch together online. Mainly rabb.it.
A talking buddy would be awesome. Someone I can chat about mundane things like day to day life or just life experiences in general. It would be nice if you could open up to me about anything because I’m likely to do the same.
Dates are fun and amazing. They don’t always have to be about serious relationships and I’m fairly casual when it comes to them. For me dates are usually about doing something different or fun. My ideal date is usually sitting down at a coffee shop; sipping tea and chatting.
I absolutely love to travel or just being out in general. I want to experience what life has to offer whether it be near or far, through shows or people, taste new food, so many things. And all this could be with company.
And please please please don’t be afraid to touch or be touched. Of course having reasonable restrictions is a must. I like just would like it if I had smooches, cuddles, and hugs as an option. Showing physical affection isn’t an always thing for me, it’s mostly based on how comfortable I am with the person.
- About me
Hello everyone! My name is Menne and a little crazy to be honest. I’m a whole bunch of things that labels me as queer like panromantic, genderqueer, and polyamorous. Not that I mind the labels because they are the best way to describe me and what I would like when it comes to relationships. I’m the type of person whose goal is to be completely honest with myself and the folks I care about. Since this is a dating site I figured I should be honest here for all the potential admirers and friends.
To go into more detail of the terms I’ve listed above. I’m panromantic, meaning that gender does very little for who I can be potentially be romantically attracted to. That being said, it’s difficult for me to become romantically attracted to someone but it doesn’t stop me from wanting to go out on dates and snuggling. I’m fine with talking about kinks, fetishes, or sex as long as I’m not the subject that is being desired or it’s the only thing we talk about.
My identity is genderqueer, which is to say a person who does not subscribe to conventional gender distinctions but identifies with neither, both, or a combination of male and female genders. All of thee above applies to me so I guess I’m a bit genderfluid as well. My pronouns are
“they/them/theirs”. That is not a preference. I won’t be offended if you slip up and call me she or him but I would appreciate if you would refer to me by my proper pronouns. Honestly, my identity has a lot to do with why I’m panromantic. Dating ladies or gents doesn’t feel straight or gay to me. The same goes with all you wonderful queerfolk out there. Love is love. <3
In regards to my polyamorous nature, I just wish to be able to love another person or persons in any way that feels most comfortable for me and that relationship. I'm pretty flexible when it comes to relationships dynamics. I'm fine with the idea having a primary partner. Or being adopted by a couple, family, tribe, or any community that accepts and loves for who I am.
To clarify, all these aspect of myself feel completely natural to me and if you have questions you can always ask. I'm usually pretty chill.
Now for about me past the labels. I’ve had this dream for a while that I want to become financially independent and own a place of my own by the coast, allowing friends or my partner(s) live with me. I’m not entirely certain how I will accomplish this dream but for now I’m pursing a degree in Business Administration and planning on going into something Computer Science related in the future.
As for my hobbies and interests. I'm a fairly creative person. I like to keep myself busy with art while I listen to audio books. Usually, at least for now that means crocheting. I crochet (knit and/or other needle work) various things such as hats, scarves, dolls (amiriguri), and blanks. The other artsy stuff I do is draw and art journal on occasion. I try to keep these up and get better but it can be difficult to maintain my interest on these things for a prolong period of time. Chances are that I'll make if I know you for a while or like you a bunch.
Aside from my artsy side, I am a bit of a nerd. I enjoy video games. I would play more if my computer wasn't trash or if I owned a console. Now if it wasn't up to my material possessions I would play FF15( I love the fishing in that game), Rock Band, Yakuza 0, or Witcher 3. For now I'll settle for HOTS, Starbound, Stardew Valley, Tabletop Simulator, and all my Pokemon games.
More on the nerdy side; I like anime. That is a bit of an understatement. I watch anime a whole lot. It's part of the whole loving art thing. I try not to just watch Japanese anime if I can help it but honestly there isn't too much variety outside of that. To give an idea of what I like: JoJo Bizarre Adventure, Shokugeki no Souma, Re:Zero, Yuri on Ice, Welcome to the Ballroom. I'm not to into huge anime like Naruto, Fairy Tale, or One Piece; However I did watch all of Gintama.
Outside of that I watch a lot of Twitch live streams if I got nothing better to do. Usually stuff revolving around the Cryaotic, The#1Alex, Octopimp, stuff like that but there’s more to it. I do the same with YouTube and I low-key like Markiplier.
Outside of those, I enjoy watching nature documentaries from time to time. Especially topics regarding the ocean. I am really into nature. Not so much that I want to go hiking or camping, especially here in the desert. Although, I do like settling down where ever I am. Take in the moment and sketch.
As a result of my biophilia, I like having animal companions and tending a mini carnivorous garden (I’ll be honest my plants have seen better days). Currently, my animal companions are one really old Chihuahua and a bearded dragon. I don’t consider them as my babies.
You can contact me through here, Skype, or Discord.
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