- Favorite Vacations Spot
Japan, Australia, New Zealand
- Ideal First Date
I prefer something low pressure. Maybe grab a coffee and take a walk through the park while we get to know each other.
- Things I am looking for in a person are:
For personal reasons, I haven’t dated for a while and am finally trying to get back out there so I’m looking for someone kind, intelligent, understanding and open-minded with similar interests we can share- someone whose equally comfortable having a deep conversation or just sitting there in silence with me watching netflix for a few hours.
- About me
Ok, so this is is weird. I always find it difficult when people ask me to describe myself, but I’ll try and do my best and be as honest as possible- warts and all. First off, I was the inspiration for Weird Al’s ’White & Nerdy’ video(not really but yes really). I read comic books, manga, sci-fi and fantasy novels (Vonnegut, George RR, and Pierce Brown being among my favorite authors). I enjoy video games (RPGs, RTS, and FPS mostly), board games (King of Tokyo, Munchkin), cards (Magic, Timeline, Fluxx), and kicking butt in trivia (though I’m better at pop culture stuff rather than any actual useful information). I am EXTREMELY introverted- like to a fault actually- and need to be coaxed out of my shell a little before opening up to people. Heck, sometimes I can be downright anti-social. Communication can be difficult for me, which I know is important in any relationship so I’d actually prefer someone who can pick up the slack there a bit while still being comfortable around me. I prefer to stay in rather than go out, but can get a little stir crazy if I don’t every now and then. I am a social drinker and 420 friendly but try not to partake too often anymore (my tolerance for both is pretty low). I prefer small, intimate social gatherings rather than a big party scene or a club. I enjoy art (though I’ve never had a talent for it), playing the guitar, and writing my own stories (that no one will ever read :P). I LOVE food. All kinds, but especially Mexican, Italian, and Soul. Honestly though, I’ll try anything once. I’ve even tried Balut (which is sort of horrifying to look at/I don’t recommend googling it). I love to travel. Scratch that- I actually get really bad travel sickness, but I love being in new places, exploring new cultures, and learning just enough of another language to ask where the bathroom is. I’m also a HUGE animal lover (have 2 dogs and 1 cat). In fact the favorite part of my day is late at night when I walk my dogs around the neighborhood while reading my kindle. Is this getting too rambly? Is that a word? The little squiggly red line underneath the word says no, but I’m leaving it.
New paragraph… Because that makes it less rambly, right? (Still not sure that’s a word but I’m not going to bother looking it up… maybe later). Personality-wise, I’m a INFP-T (if that’s your thing). I grew up in house full of people who like to scream at one another to communicate or just not communicate at all, and often found myself bending over backwards to try and keep the peace. I have the kind of low self-esteem that allows insults to roll off my shoulders like water off a duck’s back (seriously whatever insult you can think of for me, my brain has got you beat!), but will absolutely stick up for others if I feel they’re being picked on. I try to be open-minded, optimistic, and always see the best in others but can also be easily discouraged when things don’t work out the way I hoped. Intelligence-wise, I’d say I’m a bit above average. I’ve always tested well but my memory can be flaky so I don’t always believe it when people tell me I’m smart. I like to think I’m just smart enough to realize how dumb I actually am (:P). I think a lot of people assume I’m a lot smarter than I actually am because I have such nerdy tendencies and tend to have a lot of knowledge in a few specialized areas (areas of information I tend to find useless in real life scenarios).
Hmmmm… Let’s see. What else is there? I don’t know. I guess if I haven’t scared you away yet you can message me any questions you have and I’ll answer them as quickly and accurately as I can. And, uh, yeah. I guess that’s it. Thanks for taking the time to get to know me, and uh, have a nice day… or night or whatever time it is when you read this
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