Ian Lott

@ianreaver active 1 month, 3 weeks ago

 

Looking for
About me
  • Things I am looking for in a person are:

    Dreamers and quirky people. I am in the market for close friendships. I have a preference for the slender off-beats, but if you need a friend, I don’t care who you are, I’ll gladly talk and be there for you. Be warned, if you get close, I will have a fight with you at some point. However, if you are willing to not close off your mind, I promise it will actually turn out better that we had it.

    About me

    If you are going to send me a friend request, please PM me at the same time. I like getting to know the people who think I would be nice to talk to. Also, because apparently it requires a type of upgrade before you can send private messages, if you would like to contact me through other means my social email is ragingreaver413@gmail.com. Just say you are from this website if you do. Alternatively you may use my skype: Weavereaver.

    About me? I am considered odd even by odd people, a character even by storybook standards, and insane by crazy people. I hold those I call friend in the absolute highest degree…to a fault, sometimes. INFP through and through. I am a bit of a self-isolationist and video game addict (been fighting to stop), and a bit of a hassle if you happen to be close to me, but there is no life situation I won’t see you through. I am honest to a fault, which combined with depression means I can get into some really ugly stuff pretty easily. I know it is a problem, and ask for both patience and reminders for when that happens. While I am out of college, I am now looking to get my massage therapy license. I apparently can give a good back massage, and have had some light training. Its something I don’t hate, and others seem to like it, so doing for work does not sound like a bad idea.

    Video games are just my main source of relaxation and stress relieving, so my actual interests are writing and music. I don’t play anything, but I don’t know what I would do without my CDs, youtube and Pandora. Favorite artists are Enigma and Tool, but others include Moby, Lana Del Ray, Hennie Bekker, Atoma, Pink Floyd, Black Mill, Conjure One, Glitch Mob…basically if it has a melody-focus, I’ll like it and listen to it. Vivaldi and Maynard James Keenan are my heroes. I have a bunch of poems if you want to read them.

    I am also pretty sure I am a demisexual, though really all I really like to do is cuddle. Mostly right now I am just looking for friends, and if someone happens to come by who can somehow stand to be within 100 yards of me for long stretches of time, then…I don’t know, I guess I’ll figure out when I get there. Some things I think you can never truly make a decision about until you actually face the situation.

    I am recently out of college with a degree in Psychology and looking for work and friends. I must warn you that I am not entirely stable, hence the reason why it is difficult being around me. Not dangerous, mind you, just…years of self-isolation and running from people when I get stressed has taken a massive toll on both my sanity and spirit. It makes me difficult emotionally even at best, and it has created a spiral of pain that has led me to run away from even close friends. I fear the only way to stop it is to find someone with whom I can truly connect, then find a few other friends to stop the concentration of pain.

    I am doing what I can, but it will still probably take a while before I can heal. I can say my unique experiences have led me to experience a wide range of humanity, to the point where I can say poetically and with confidence that I have seen the bright side of hell and the ugly side of heaven, and the blissful nightmare that is purgatory. So I will repeat, if you need a friend, I do not care who you are, what you have done, or even how many people hate you. I cannot promise to be what you need, but I will promise to at least help point you in the right direction. I also promise to pledge my rather considerable loyalty to you, for what little it may be worth. So if you have nowhere else to go, or life is just unkind at the moment, hit me up. I always will have an available ear.

  • Name

    Ian Lott

    Country

    United States

    I am a

    Man

    Looking for a

    Woman

    Marital status

    Single

    Language

    English

    Faith

    Other

    Interests

    Animals and Pets, Art, Food & Wine, Going out with friends, Listeing to Music, Nature, Reading, Social work, Vidéo games, Writing, Yoga, Meditation

  • Base
    Name

    Ian Lott

    Country

    United States

    I am a

    Man

    Looking for a

    Woman

    Marital status

    Single

    Language

    English

    Faith

    Other

    Interests

    Animals and Pets, Art, Food & Wine, Going out with friends, Listeing to Music, Nature, Reading, Social work, Vidéo games, Writing, Yoga, Meditation

  • Looking For
    Things I am looking for in a person are:

    Dreamers and quirky people. I am in the market for close friendships. I have a preference for the slender off-beats, but if you need a friend, I don’t care who you are, I’ll gladly talk and be there for you. Be warned, if you get close, I will have a fight with you at some point. However, if you are willing to not close off your mind, I promise it will actually turn out better that we had it.

    About me

    If you are going to send me a friend request, please PM me at the same time. I like getting to know the people who think I would be nice to talk to. Also, because apparently it requires a type of upgrade before you can send private messages, if you would like to contact me through other means my social email is ragingreaver413@gmail.com. Just say you are from this website if you do. Alternatively you may use my skype: Weavereaver.

    About me? I am considered odd even by odd people, a character even by storybook standards, and insane by crazy people. I hold those I call friend in the absolute highest degree…to a fault, sometimes. INFP through and through. I am a bit of a self-isolationist and video game addict (been fighting to stop), and a bit of a hassle if you happen to be close to me, but there is no life situation I won’t see you through. I am honest to a fault, which combined with depression means I can get into some really ugly stuff pretty easily. I know it is a problem, and ask for both patience and reminders for when that happens. While I am out of college, I am now looking to get my massage therapy license. I apparently can give a good back massage, and have had some light training. Its something I don’t hate, and others seem to like it, so doing for work does not sound like a bad idea.

    Video games are just my main source of relaxation and stress relieving, so my actual interests are writing and music. I don’t play anything, but I don’t know what I would do without my CDs, youtube and Pandora. Favorite artists are Enigma and Tool, but others include Moby, Lana Del Ray, Hennie Bekker, Atoma, Pink Floyd, Black Mill, Conjure One, Glitch Mob…basically if it has a melody-focus, I’ll like it and listen to it. Vivaldi and Maynard James Keenan are my heroes. I have a bunch of poems if you want to read them.

    I am also pretty sure I am a demisexual, though really all I really like to do is cuddle. Mostly right now I am just looking for friends, and if someone happens to come by who can somehow stand to be within 100 yards of me for long stretches of time, then…I don’t know, I guess I’ll figure out when I get there. Some things I think you can never truly make a decision about until you actually face the situation.

    I am recently out of college with a degree in Psychology and looking for work and friends. I must warn you that I am not entirely stable, hence the reason why it is difficult being around me. Not dangerous, mind you, just…years of self-isolation and running from people when I get stressed has taken a massive toll on both my sanity and spirit. It makes me difficult emotionally even at best, and it has created a spiral of pain that has led me to run away from even close friends. I fear the only way to stop it is to find someone with whom I can truly connect, then find a few other friends to stop the concentration of pain.

    I am doing what I can, but it will still probably take a while before I can heal. I can say my unique experiences have led me to experience a wide range of humanity, to the point where I can say poetically and with confidence that I have seen the bright side of hell and the ugly side of heaven, and the blissful nightmare that is purgatory. So I will repeat, if you need a friend, I do not care who you are, what you have done, or even how many people hate you. I cannot promise to be what you need, but I will promise to at least help point you in the right direction. I also promise to pledge my rather considerable loyalty to you, for what little it may be worth. So if you have nowhere else to go, or life is just unkind at the moment, hit me up. I always will have an available ear.

  • Detailed Profile Info
    Looking for

    Serious Relationshiop, Just friends

    Smoking

    Never

    Height

    5'10"

    Weight

    210lbs

    Hair Color

    Chestnut

    Eye Color

    Hazel

    Body Type

    Pear

    Best Feature

    My Emotionality. Double-edged sword though.

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