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I am very easy going. I have defects, but I am emotionally intelligent, I simply don’t create drama and I am not the kind of person that will use what you say against you, I hate debating. People usually feel very comfortable around me, specially younger people because I do one of the hardest things in life: I Listen Without Judgement. I hear a lot from people: ”Please, don’t you ever change, you are so nice.” At the same time I feel nice because my mother was just like that, she had so many friends without conflicts.
About bad temper, that has a magical effect on me because it makes me disappear in a jiffy. When debating and arguments appear I simply shut out. I hardly get offended, that’s I can sit down and talk about anything, even if I am upset.
Two human beings will never agree on 100% of things, but will agree on 75% of things, the rest is fixed by being friends. Yes, being friends is important, that’s why having alike personalities is very important. Andre Agassi, the famous former tennis player, was married to Brooke Shields, but she was like a mannequin until the split and now he is happily married to Steffi Graf, another famous former tennis player, and they are happy together… because they have same passion about tennis. Having the most important things in common is paramount in friendship and in romance.
- About me
I have my own ideas, my own experiences, my own mistakes, my own thoughts, I am not a copy of anybody. Well, nobody can’t avoid (including me) being conditioned by race, education, culture, and so many things, but at least I have followed the very core of my bones.
I have lived in Chile, Venezuela, USA (twice), England (twice), Barcelona (twice), Tenerife (Canary Islands, where I am now), and traveled a bit around. But my best trip was to the amazon jungle, that was the best. I visit countries in order to enjoy people, I don’t care much about great buildings or famous places.
The person you see in me, the mask, will not fall off. The mask you will see in me is the same one all the time, you will not have surprises. Most people are like a fashion, they all appear happy, perfect, beautiful. But after 4 or 5 months the theater is difficult to keep and the mask falls off, then the real person appears. I have hardly known somebody who tells me his or her defects at once, or that tells me that he or she are feeling bad inside and they are doing their best to change it. Most human beings are born screwed up by default because we all inherit emotional chains fro our ancestors and most people don’t know that a quiet pregnancy is essential, then the first 4 years are very important, and the rest of years until we are 8 years old. Then we are not programming machines anymore but either conscious or unconscious people.
Then all kind of lies appear, people live thru ideas of how things should be, all with the intention of hiding that they feel bad. In my case I knew since a very young age that I had to dedicate my life to cutting the chains of suffering that I had inherited. And, boy, I was right. I already was a happy (innerly connected by default) person, but so much success bored me and I decided to go into a deeper path and I can tell you that it was hard but I go not only to where I thought I had to get but I am also living a life of miraculous beautiful surprises (inside and outside) that constantly arise.
So, I am different. Because I am different I know I have to keep distance from all that makes me feel bad, and that’s why I avoid debating, arguing, conflicts, drama. I cam handle a little bit of that, but keeping this peace inside myself makes me just look at people doing, thinking, and saying all kind of crazy things, attaching themselves to so many things that deep inside make them suffer.
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