Have you tried to connect to the Dutch language version of AVEN online? Probably the largest amount of Dutch asexuals you will find in one common place. That said, I would suggest to see Europe as one entity, a sort of United States of Europe. Us who are a bit different than the “norms”, we have to be very Lucky to find the lover of our dreams right next door, but if we make our geographic area a bit broader then it’s for sure possible. And with low budget airlines connecting all corners of Europe, long-distance isn’t something that cannot be overcome these days.